is this normal?

[blossom]

ok, im really embaressed about this but... im 13, and tried masterbating for the first time today, and i had an orgasm. when i had my orgasm, i knew it would feel good, but like my whole body felt all like good and relaxed, not just down there. is that normal? also, when i had it, i couldnt help it, but i moaned a little. is that normal?

[Maverick]

Completely normal. The first time is always a bit weird as it's something new and different. You'll get used to it.

[Rawrbaby]

its very normal and it does seem weird at first and also ya do different things sometimes when ya do it for the first time and some do moan when they have one and congrats

[blossom]

good, i thought something was wrong with me when i like felt it through my whole body. it was like i was high or something (not that i ever have been high!)

[DouggyO.o]

i felt the same way when i first did it...but trust me its better then being high =) atleast i think so

[blossom]

i heard about using other things like markers and cucumbers and vibrators. should i try any of that, or should i just stick to my fingers? im really starting to like this! i did it a second time

[Aηdy]

It would be best to stick to your fingers until you explore yourself more and find what you like best.. if you do use anything make sure it's clean!

[blossom]

It would be best to stick to your fingers until you explore yourself more and find what you like best.. if you do use anything make sure it's clean!

thanks, i will. wow, i never new that this was really discussed at all

[ThatCanadianGuy]

thanks, i will. wow, i never new that this was really discussed at all

You have NO idea!! This is a site for guys, but check out www.jackinworld.com . It does have some info that may enlighten you (like what guys think and whatever). And yeah, you felt it all over your body because it was so damn good! Congratulations! Here's to many, many more! :yeah:

[blossom]

those images were a little too much for me. remember, im new to this so i just do what naturally feels good.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

It is all educational, but there are websites for girls (that was just if you want to see the guy's perspective on talkin' about masturbation with their girlfriends etc.). www.healthystrokes.com has info for guys and girls (though it is kinda biased, but not that much). The other website I now know is restricted to post (contains links to buy sex toys and stuff) but if you check out wikipedia's article on masturbation it will give you several links to websites made equally for guys and girls, as well as ones specifically for girls. Good luck!

[MoveAlong]

I just want to say that I don't trust the healthy strokes website, and have found little information that backs up their main article. I'm completely against that website.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Oops :eek: ah well I can't post the relevant or "good" ones 'cause they all lead to inapropriate material. Man, I wish they could just be informative, with no stupid links...

[greger92]

totally normal like seriously my whole legs like stretch out and relax feels soooo good

[Sapphire]

Yep, its completely normal. Just go with what feels good :)

[I'm cool like spongebob]

v normal

[blossom]

im becoming like obsessed with this, is that bad?

[Sapphire]

As long as you don't let it interfere with your day-to-day life and you can still do all the things you enjoy then it's fine.

[Brook]

it sounds as if you did it right

[gymnastgirl]

I wanna try masturbating but im nervous and afraid if someone will walk in. And also do you do it like in your pants or with your underwear on?

[TheDeepestDepths]

I wanna try masturbating but im nervous and afraid if someone will walk in. And also do you do it like in your pants or with your underwear on?

I was the same as you first time, I was still living with my parents at the time and was absolutely terrified one would walk in. It's always going to be awkward the first time. You're worried your doing it wrong/ someone's going to walk in/ if there's something wrong with what you're trying. and all of this leads to a build up of stress and you wonder if it's really worth it or it simply dampens your pleasure (which is always a great pity ;) ). My advice is to relax (not very helpful I know) just concentrate at touching and feeling for a bit find out what you like, don't worry about how you're doing it or reaching orgasm or how long it's taking. Just explore, the orgasms will come, and likely faster if you're comfortable and relaxed.

To avoid the stress and paranoia that someone will walk in try doing it at night when everyone is asleep or lock your bedroom door. Other people like to masturbate using running water so in the shower is a good place to try it.

I like to masturbate in my bed and I love the feel of sheets on my bare skin so I strip my bottom half bare. But that's my personal preference, do what feels right for you, if you're new at it, try a couple of ways. Be adventurous! You may be surprised at what you like.

[gymnastgirl]

I was the same as you first time, I was still living with my parents at the time and was absolutely terrified one would walk in. It's always going to be awkward the first time. You're worried your doing it wrong/ someone's going to walk in/ if there's something wrong with what you're trying. and all of this leads to a build up of stress and you wonder if it's really worth it or it simply dampens your pleasure (which is always a great pity ;) ). My advice is to relax (not very helpful I know) just concentrate at touching and feeling for a bit find out what you like, don't worry about how you're doing it or reaching orgasm or how long it's taking. Just explore, the orgasms will come, and likely faster if you're comfortable and relaxed.

To avoid the stress and paranoia that someone will walk in try doing it at night when everyone is asleep or lock your bedroom door. Other people like to masturbate using running water so in the shower is a good place to try it.

I like to masturbate in my bed and I love the feel of sheets on my bare skin so I strip my bottom half bare. But that's my personal preference, do what feels right for you, if you're new at it, try a couple of ways. Be adventurous! You may be surprised at what you like. thank you so so sooo much! that litteraly anwsered all my questions! i have ankther question if thats ok?

[TheDeepestDepths]

thank you so so sooo much! that litteraly anwsered all my questions! i have ankther question if thats ok?

Fire away, I'll answer it if I can. You can PM me if it's private. I'm always willing to talk.

[emily-candace]

If you want to try, just be careful and take it easy. You will figure it out like the rest of us did.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Please don't post in threads older than 2 months, this one is from 2007! :locked: