3 months

[Amanda93]

Its been over 3 months since iv cut.. everything was fine and going good but last night I cut and idk wats the point anymore I want to stop but don't thik I ever will. And I'm also pushing my bestfriend away:(! I jst need some advice!

[TronMau5]

If Im understanding this correctly... Your saying its been 3 months since youve cut yourself.

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If so: Dont ever do it again. You may not think that you have a reason not to, or maybe you just dont think that theres any reason to live or something I dun know. But heres how I think of life.
(Quote) “I like to imagine that the world is one big machine. You know, machines never have any extra parts. They have the exact number and type of parts they need. So I figure if the entire world is a big machine, I have to be here for some reason. And that means you have to be here for some reason, too.” (Unquote)
Thats pretty much all the advice I can give in that situation.

If not: Please elaborate.

[xXoblivionXx]

Jac, just not cutting is way easier said than done. It's extremely hard to "don't ever do it again"

Amanda, what triggered you to cut again? You made it three months, that's great! I know what it feels like to want to stop but also feeling the need to cut. Just remember that you don't need to cut in order to be happy.

[Desuetude]

3 months, 90 days, is a massive achievement. Whether you relapsed or carried on to go further you should be so proud of yourself. There is a point, why did you stop in the first place? Think about all the reasons you have for stopping; people who care about you, things that cutting stops you from doing. Going to the beach, swimming, being able to wear short sleeves. Even small things like that, think about how much more free you'll feel. It's okay to relapse, sometimes, when everything gets on top of you it feels like a good idea. What's important now is that you pick yourself back up, don't get back into old habits again. Don't push your friend away, let her/him in, let them help and support you. That's what friends do for each other, wouldn't you want to be there for them?