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awsomewindow
June 26th, 2012, 01:22 AM
i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits

but lately iv been attracted to men but the thought of sleeping with a man dose not appeal

has any one else had this :confused:

Lyra Heartstrings
June 26th, 2012, 01:23 AM
ignore this..

SmileyFace13
June 26th, 2012, 01:30 AM
i have had girlfriends but im more attracted to men then women...but i would put myself either bi/gay.

Stronger
June 26th, 2012, 10:32 AM
i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits

but lately iv been attracted to men but the thought of sleeping with a man dose not appeal

has any one else had this :confused:

You could be, but you could also be curious as well. But I wouldn't jump to any conclusions, if your not sure, then don't label yourself, just give it time and think about it, over the course of time.

dontfiguremeout
June 26th, 2012, 04:48 PM
your most likely straight curious

Lovemeorleaveme
June 26th, 2012, 05:11 PM
You are in a loving relationship with your girlfriend, if your bi then it means you will be able to have the same sort of relationship with either gender. The fact your not sexualy attracted to boys could be because of a few different things, you could be bi-curious, you may not have accepted the thought of you being bi enough for that thought to sit well, the fact your in a relationship with a girl might make it feel wrong. I went to the same thing, the though of having sex with a girl didnt feel right to me untill i had stopped fighting the idea that i was bi.

I want to say Pansexuality..but I'm not really keen on all of them. I'd let other people answer first before considering mine.
He did not in anyway suggest he might be pansexual, if he had said that he's attracted to people and their gender makes no difference then he would be pansexual, he only said that he's attracted to guys and girls which is the definition of bi.

erick2012
June 28th, 2012, 02:26 AM
I think ur just curious. And if you are bi, you shouldn't do anything to put a strain on ur relationship.

Lyra Heartstrings
June 28th, 2012, 07:35 PM
You are in a loving relationship with your girlfriend, if your bi then it means you will be able to have the same sort of relationship with either gender. The fact your not sexualy attracted to boys could be because of a few different things, you could be bi-curious, you may not have accepted the thought of you being bi enough for that thought to sit well, the fact your in a relationship with a girl might make it feel wrong. I went to the same thing, the though of having sex with a girl didnt feel right to me untill i had stopped fighting the idea that i was bi.


He did not in anyway suggest he might be pansexual, if he had said that he's attracted to people and their gender makes no difference then he would be pansexual, he only said that he's attracted to guys and girls which is the definition of bi.

I knew I got it wrong. >.< Sorry. I can't think of which one is emotionally attracted..

cra1g
June 30th, 2012, 11:52 PM
You are probably just curious most guys are at least a little curious

whiteyrhys
July 1st, 2012, 08:18 AM
Hay awesomewindow

Staying with the status quo in this threat I would say that you’re straight but curious, which is natural. An option for you would be that you ‘experiment’ with a guy – but only if you’re comfortable to do so, don’t let anyone force you to and certainly after any relationship with your girlfriend ends!

You don’t have to ‘sleep’ with a guy per se but find someone who’s gay or bi even straight but curious and talk to them find out what their thoughts and feelings are – you may both come to a mutual decision that you want to try it.
If you’re not comfortable doing this then that’s okay too – just do whatever suits you and is good for you!

RedViper
July 1st, 2012, 08:19 AM
Puberty and hormones can do that to people. :)