Scared

[RCT109]

Hey guys I need yalls advice. This girl I like had said no when I asked her out in early June. I am planning a BBQ for late July. I am scared of how I am going to act around her. I mean she thinks about me the same way I do about her. I invited her to the BBQ and I act differently around her than I do my other friends. She doesnt like cursing so Im trying to stop doing it. But with my other friends who curse I just go with it. And I dont know what to do .

She is not the type of person who judges but i dont know what to do/

So any advice would be helpful
Thanks,
Shawn

[RCT109]

come on guys please help

[bmxkid313]

Don't change for her. If she likes you, great. If not then there is nothing you can do. It will be better for you to find somebody who likes you the way you are then it would be to change for one girl.

[xXoblivionXx]

I agree with Ryan. I'm sure your a great guy. If she can't see that then I guess she isn't the right one for you. People act differently around their friends, she shouldn't judge you for goofing around with your friends.

[Nellerin]

Do not ever change to make her like you more. Because if you are not acting like yourself and she becomes your girlfriend then you are dating someone that does not actually like you.

Act how you normally do and hopefully she will like you as you are and want to take things further. Also do not get so scared around her that you refrain from talking to her because she will lose interest in you and things will not go further.

[EvilB]

Well you can stop the potty mouth for one event? Just tell ur friends ur trying to make a good impression.

[unnamed94]

theres a difference between trying to change for someone and acting different with some friends. i dont act the same around some friends like i do when im with my closest friends, theres nothing wrong with that. if that isnt the case and she wants you to change for her its up to you but in my opinion if you have to change for someone then it isnt worth it. cursing around here is some small stuff which you could work on if you wanted to be with here, but if it involves more than just changing little things then i would not go for it and just be friends with her. btw how old are you two?

[dontfiguremeout]

Be yourself!

[RCT109]

Thanks guys I appreciate it all I really do
I am my self around her just not my complete self

[Ricardo]

yes i agree just be yourself and everything will be ok.Good luck

[RCT109]

yes i agree just be yourself and everything will be ok.Good luck

thanks

[Ricardo]

No worries,what will you do?

[RCT109]

No worries,what will you do?

As I said, I'm a different person around her and thats the person I prefer to be so I think that I will act the way I do around her all the time. She may not even be coming so Hopefully it works out for me

[Ricardo]

I hope she comes and will be waiting to hear what happens.I am sure you will do great.

[RCT109]

I hope she comes and will be waiting to hear what happens.I am sure you will do great.

Thanks so do i

[jnhbgvbhgv21]

Just be you and hope things work out for the better.

[EvilB]

As I said, I'm a different person around her and thats the person I prefer to be so I think that I will act the way I do around her all the time. She may not even be coming so Hopefully it works out for me

Ya be who you want to be!! You can change at anytime and be whatever you want

[irish_dude_16]

just b yourself man