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Jtyler
June 24th, 2012, 10:41 PM
How to tell if someone is gay. Just asking.



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predatorsfan21
June 24th, 2012, 10:59 PM
You can't really "tell".

gone123
June 24th, 2012, 11:10 PM
Other than asking them there's no way to know for sure if someone is gay or not.

Ender
June 24th, 2012, 11:28 PM
You cant

Cicero
June 24th, 2012, 11:33 PM
There's no real way, but if they are the stereotype gay. Ask if they like fashion, shopping, make up, and if something looks good for your eyes, idk lol :P

Eric57
June 25th, 2012, 01:09 AM
There really isn't any way to tell if someone is gay, unless you straight up ask them if they are. Some people it's easy to tell because they are just the natural gay stereotype, but there are many gay men/woman who don't fit the stereotype in the least that are gay. Coming from a gay man who doesn't fit the stereotype, most (if not all) of my friends said they didn't know or couldn't tell I was gay until I actually came out to them. But yeah, there really isn't any way to tell unless you ask them.

Overcast
June 25th, 2012, 07:38 AM
well as a lot of dudes say, you can't really tell- i mean there are always stereotypes, but those aren't accurate. i am, and I've been told i have been "suspected gay" for a while, some people just know i suppose. unless they are wearing a "I'm gay" t-shirt, theres no way to tell! just ask, and if they are comfortable, they will tell the truth

Diverperry
June 25th, 2012, 11:10 AM
apart from the usual stereotypes, you just either need to ask.

Jmann
June 25th, 2012, 06:33 PM
You can't really tell. You can "use" sterotypes but sometimes they're wrong so...only asking is the best way but sometimes they wont say for reasons

Nellerin
June 25th, 2012, 06:35 PM
There is not a way to tell, and even if someone dresses/acts a certain way it is still not a surefire way to find out. If you really want to know then they just will have to tell you (come out).

Sean4U
July 2nd, 2012, 04:44 PM
Totally agree with most replies here you can't really tell unless they fit the stereotype that we all know. Other than asking, well don't really think that there is another way. Some of us have "gaydar" but really now even tho I feel it at times, I don't think that there is anything really like that except the signals you might get from some guys.


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