Big Girls

[TriAthlete]

I am athletic and I work out a lot. I am always around girls who work out a lot. I had an experience this weekend that has me totally confused about myself. At my friend's graduation party there were a lot of girls there who I know from school and girls who go to school with my friend who I do not know. Of all of the girls there one in particular caught my attention. Just let me call her Rachel. Rachel is a big girl. She's 16 years old and about 300 pounds. I couldn't help but to check her out every moment I could. I've known since I first started the swim team that I am more attracted to the curvier girls than to the skinny girls but I never thought I could find a 300 pound girl attractive. Rachel is a whole lot more than attractive. I would characterize her as straight up HOT! Every time I found myself staring at her I would try to figure out what I like about her so much. Sure, she has really big breasts and a gorgeous face but so do a lot of girls who I never give a second glance to. A few times I noticed Rachel checking me out so I decided to make the move. Myself and a few of my closest friends were gathered on the front lawn just chatting it up when Rachel came over with my friend's (the guy graduating) girlfriend. They are really good friends. Rachel introduced herself to me and already knew my name. WTF!? We chatted for a bit, had some eats and chatted some more. When it got dark I got some fireworks from my car and a few of us, Rachel included, walked up the street to set them off. We came back and hung out on the hood of my car. One thing led to another and I decided to leave my inhibitions aside and made out with Rachel. Well more than made out. I gave her oral. This was a night of firsts for me. While we were making out I was nervous that I would find her fat belly and butt really gross but when I felt her belly and butt I was even more turned on. I must have spent and hour just caressing her big belly. I really like the soft warmth of it, her butt and thighs too.

I am about to go meet my friend and his girlfriend and maybe even Rachel for dinner and a movie. I am not sure I can have a relationship with a girl I am so nervous about even though I really enjoyed making out with her. I am uncertain how my friends would react when I start bringing her around. It is HER feelings I don't want hurt.

Are any other guys attracted to big(ger) girls? What about them do you like?

Girls; what do you think?

[Akasuki]

It's completely normal. Everyone has their own preferences. I like short chubby girls ( not obese, but still ).
Don't be embarrassed about it. If you really like her, introduce her to your friends. If they judge you or her then they aren't worth keeping around.

[TriAthlete]

Roxi, thank you for your advice.

Damn, I am so nervous. About to go out and see Rachel again.

[lilmamabowers]

I don't think size should matter ... if your friends are who you think they are then they will accept anyone you are interested in. If they decide to make jokes or make fun of another person you like then they are not true friends. I say you go for it! That's my opinion

[TriAthlete]

Wow! My head is still spinning. I have been dating Rachel for over a week now. My time with Rachel has completely dispelled everything I have been told about fat girls. Fat girls are not slobs. Fat girls do not smell bad. Fat girls do not spend all of their time eating. Fat girls do not feel gross. I could go on and on but I do not have all day. Most importantly of all I have learned that fat girls are just as beautiful, to me more so, than their petite sisters.

I was quite surprised to learn that Rachel is a lifeguard at the lake in her town. As if it is some omen I have a swim meet at that lake this Friday. I stopped by last week to see Rachel at work and I was amazed to see her in the bright red lifeguard swim suit showing no apparent shame of her body. I think it is her confidence in herself which has won me over. I even got to watch her swim out and rescue a young girl who panicked when she realized she could not stand up where she was. Rachel can move as quickly and gracefully as any skinny girl on the team. Quite impressive and contrary to stereotypes surrounding fat girls. More so since Rachel is much bigger than I had initially guestimated; 330 pounds.

Anyway, I am done bragging about having a relationship that I think I will be happy with. I only wish I knew to appreciate fat girls a year or two ago.

[unnamed94]

everyone has different taste in girls. if you are happy then who cares. find a moment, maybe later in your relationship, to talk to her about being overweight. its not because its ugly or nothing like that, its just unhealthy. she could go to the gym to do more exercise than what she is doing now or whatever. if she is fat because of a disorder or anything like that then disregrd what i just said. good luck with your relationship.

[MemoriesLost]

I take off my hat to you!!
I think that she is HUMAN. She is as beautiful and amazing as the next person. I'm glad you're not one of those people who acts like a bigger person is terrible and disgusting. I'm not even very big, but because I'm not skin and bones, people kinda treat me like a disease. I totally respect you, and hope you and Rachel go far! ^o^

[TriAthlete]

Thank you for your encouragement, everybody. Rachel and I went to the fireworks show at the airport last night with a bunch of our friends. I did notice a lot of whispering back and forth with glances over at Rachel and I. I cannot help but to think that her friends are some combination of surprised and confused that Rachel has a physically fit athletic boyfriend who totally adores her every curve and my friends are thinking something along the lines of, "Dude, WTF!?" The next couple of days will show me who my friends really are.

The past week and a half have been spent by Rachel and I exploring each others' bodies and personalities. The more I get to know her the more I like her.

[Mountain]

This is really inspiring, dude! I wish girls were as forgiving as you, as a bigger guy myself, but I digress. I'm happy for you both, and I hope you all learn a lesson from this (even your friends) that weight doesn't make a person. You'll be the happier person in the end being true to yourself, and I'm glad you didn't let pressures stop you from dating this girl. She sounds like a keeper. I dated a big girl once. She wasn't a keeper, but that had nothing to do with her weight. It was a great time though. Gave me some perspective. Anyway, good luck to you, dude! I hope the best for you and your girl.

[dontfiguremeout]

Honestly love is love! And the way you said it couldn't have been any better!!! And you know it's true love when size, weight, race doesn't even matter, but the person itself! And that's what love really is about!