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Sam Moloney
June 24th, 2012, 03:53 PM
My friend and I have experimented before but now every time I go over he wants to, it make me feel abused and sometimes violated, what should I do
MassiveAttack
June 24th, 2012, 04:38 PM
I would tell him how you feel. Or tell him you don't want to do things so often at least.
Stryker125
June 24th, 2012, 04:53 PM
Tell him how you feel. Just let him know you're not doing it every time you guys hang out.
spoke
June 24th, 2012, 06:41 PM
tell him, no thanks i'm not comfortable doing that. but lets do something else.
Skeptical Bear
June 24th, 2012, 06:46 PM
What these guys said. When ever you meet up with him, tell him how you feel towards him wanting to do that all the time. Don't make him feel guilty about as that's probably not his intention but tell him how you feel.
Sean4U
July 3rd, 2012, 10:30 AM
If it make you feel uncomfortable tell him so. Remember NO MEANS NO even with guys with each other and he should respect that.
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senior.2013
July 3rd, 2012, 10:33 AM
Tell him you dont want to. If he doesnt like you anymore, hes not your friend.
Ben_E
July 3rd, 2012, 10:56 AM
If he's your friend simply tell him your not comfortable/cool with doing it.. If he's a true friend he'll understand and apologize.. and you can put it behind you and continue being friends
FERN012
July 3rd, 2012, 11:01 AM
just tell him what you feel
wild1
July 3rd, 2012, 11:06 AM
Just say "some other time" until he stops asking. He'll get the idea eventually you don't want too but won't get too upset.
SamB
July 3rd, 2012, 11:21 AM
Tell him exactly what you just told us, if he is your friend he will understand that he is taking it too far, and will end up losing you if he doesn't stop.
whiteyrhys
July 3rd, 2012, 11:32 AM
Yeah!
What Sam said ^^^
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