First time... HELP

[flumeendeavors]

Hey guys,

So im getting ready to have sex for the first time with this guy and im really nervous. For a few years ive gone back and forth between whether i was a lesbian or just bisexual so sex with a guy never really crossed my mind and now the chance is here and i feel like im ready but im nervous for many reasons.

1 - what if i hurt him with my teeth when im blowing him
2 - what if i bleed after penetration
3 - what if its just not good
4 - PREGNANCY. I mean, im on the pill and we're going to use a condom but my mom had me as a teen and i dont really wanna go down that path too.

Also, im worried cause we're probably going to be in his basement or something and what if one of his parents walks in?


AAAAH can anyone help me out? I have other questions but feel weird asking them on here.. im really nervous.

Thank you! (:

[SamB]

Just don't worry about it, with the teeth thing, just don't bite and don't scrape your teeth down his shaft! Second, its normal for a girl to bleed after their first time, its the breaking of your hymen. I have heard lots of people say that their first time is awful, because they don't really know what to do so don't worry about it being amazing. If you are on the pill and are using a condom then you have done almost all you can to prevent pregnancy, if you have any other worries afterwards go to your doctor within 48 hrs and get the morning after pill.

Also if his parents walk I honestly don't think there is a lot you could do tbh. And its normal to be nervous, but only go though with it if you are 100% sure about it or you may regret it.

[DOGDOG]

I know all about first times
The day after you will look back and think it was all good fun just remember dont let him take control , take it slow and dont do anything you dont feel un comfertable doing. p.s men love it when the women is in control and in the shower!!! HAVE FUN