Experimentation Question

[Qunt]

So me and my friend are actually going to experiment, we have talked it out and such. But the problem is .. Im straight but curious, but my friend is full out gay.. So if I decided to experiment with him, does that make me gay if he's gay and that we experimented? Im sooo confused by this >.< please help.

[wolfman585]

no it does not make u gay

being gay is about being both physically and emotionallly attracted to men

[Abyssal Echo]

nope to experiment with a friend is normal during puberty and does not mean you are gay at all.

[LatinaVivit]

Only you can decide what orientation you are. You may be in denial--I don't know you're particular situation--but, it's up to you to come to the realization of what you are. I'm not saying you should, but if you feel it will help you find out if you're gay or bi or straight, then by all means, go ahead.

[Short Circuit]

Please make sure you are ready to do what your about to do. My friend experimented on me, I was not expecting the things he did, and it has ruined our friendship, so before you do, make sure your 100% ready, that is all I am saying.

[Tom Stone]

Experimentation doesn't make you gay. Being sexually attracted to males makes you gay. Or bi, if you're also attracted to females.

[MassiveAttack]

Please make sure you are ready to do what your about to do. My friend experimented on me, I was not expecting the things he did, and it has ruined our friendship, so before you do, make sure your 100% ready, that is all I am saying.

I have to agree. Make sure you are 100% ready.

[Green Arrow]

It doesn't make you gay at all, it's experimenting. However you do need to think about if you really want to try it out as it some cases it can ruin friendships. But you do what you feel is right. :)

[leafgreenangel]

no it doesn't make you gay. have fun

[Samstar]

Doesn't mean you're fully gay just because he is - you said it yourself, you're curious. Don't worry about it, and enjoy. :D

[Qunt]

Alright Thanks =]

[fastcar]

You are the only one that chooses your orientation. If you want to make sure he knows your not gay just tell him that before.

[Sean4U]

From what I've seen on this site most all guys experiment and it certainly doesn't' make you gay. Set the ground rules tho as to what you want to do since you know he is gay he MAY and i say MAY have more experience fooling around. Just j/o with each other or give each other a hand job or set the limits. Do you want a BJ from him? then tell him but I imagine he may want one in return. Do ONLY what you feel comfortable with. By the time you read this you may have already done it so I hope it was fun and that you feel comfortable with what you did.



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[Ben_E]

No doesn't make you gay at all. Experimenting is totally normal, if you are worried about your friend being gay, simply set our rules and boundaries before you start.

[whiteyrhys]

Not at all, people don't 'turn' gay after experimenting with the same sex.

You're the one who decides your own sexuality depending on how you feel after experimenting. It's normal to experiment!

[SamB]

No it doesn't make you gay in anyway, you answered the questions yourself when you said that you are straight curious, thats all it is curiosity. You aren't emotionally and physically attracted to your friend so it doesn't mean you are gay.

[jamesh]

No, it doesn't make you gay. But if your friend is gay, you should be aware that he might be a lot more experienced than you, and/or there is a lot more that he wants to do, so you should think carefully about what you're comfortable with. Have fun!