Ever wish he....

[Ohthatguy45]

Ever wish he was bi/gay? Hey so i have a bestfriend and i started to develop feelings for him. Hes goodlooking smart and funny and we just click.. The only problem is..hes strait i thInk.. I asked him if we wuld flash a guy and he said if it wasnt for a stupid reason he wuld so idk. But the bad thing is i miss him and think bout him non stop. Has anyone have any advice or similar situations...thnks!! :)

[noamillr]

That is basically my life story...

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

I'm in the same boat idk wat to do...the only thing different is me and my best friend j/o each other

[Rayquaza]

Well, you should ask him just to be sure. If he is straight, then sorry, there's nothing you can do, only 'wish' like you said. It's better if you move on quicker, because the longer you spend time with him, the more you're going to expect in a downfall. Just face it, he's your friend, and be glad that you have this relationship. Even if he was bisexual or homosexual, getting into a relationship with someone you have this magnificent bond with could compromise the entire structure of your friendship if anything goes wrong.

[Cazzman]

Im in exactly the same situation, again im almost certain hes straight but ive never straight up asked him! What ive done is basically accept that it wont become anything more than a friendship and I know if i told him how i feel that it would change our relationship forever and probably for the worse because he wouldnt be able to stop thinking about it, so I now just keep him as a great friend and get pleasure whenever i see anything or do anything a bit beyond friendship :) hope this helps but if u wanna chat more then message me cus im literally exactly where u r

[LatinaVivit]

I mean I'm gay and in high school. Do I even need to answer this question?

[Racer4life25]

yeah story of my life lol

[LiamC]

My life, seriously.

A friend of mine is my biggest crush, he's perfect. Tall, funny, cute, nice ass, friendly, everything. But he's straight, and recently I've not been talking to him as much, because of how I feel. He doesn't notice anything, still talks to me etc. and thinks it's a natural progression. But I often wonder and think that if he was gay or at least bi and fancied me back how amazing it could be :(

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Im in the same position also. It sucks especially when he doesn't like you back.

[Diverperry]

does he know your bi? cause coming out to him and telling him all at once might be a little much. an old friend did that to me and it really freaked me out and now we haven't talked in almost 4 years

[Overcast]

well kinda, i mean i fantasize, but i know he's straight- like 110%... i mean i wish, but no...

[DarkHorse4eva]

almost the story of my life

[jerry102]

This is my life story right here

[Liveoak]

I have definitely been here with my best friend in 9th grade. We were very close, but he didn't know I was super interested in taking it to the next level. Unfortunately at the time, I was too afraid of losing him as a friend to ask.

[NotASpyingRent]

Flashing someone isn't a sign of being gay. Its a sign of being ignorant.

[pineinchneis]

yep im in the same situation except i think in in love with him and he knows it but hes completley straight :(

[purpleninjacookie]

Wow....yeah.....same problem here....

[hotteengeek97]

yea sometimes my best friend is very hot

[habbohop]

same here!
just try and talk to him,

[Scottydog]

All the time...

[deathmoonO2]

Okay, so just tell him that you've been loving him for a long time. but in a nice way, explain everything, maybe he will accept you.

[CranberryBridge]

This happens to me a lot. I'll find a friend, hang out, and develop feelings for him. But I always have to let it go, which is hard to do.

[RunnerForLife]

Yeah I've wished that so many times haha my best friends are really hot lol

[saul1026]

nope never have

[Aidoon123]

Aww that kinda cute just ask him if he wants to experiment

[curiousme]

Almost the same problem with me.. but hes not my bestfriend and we never ever talked about anything like that but yeah i think theres a couple guys who are hot and im really attracted to them but i know there straight...

[harrya54]

im in the same boat as u guys
how come its mostly the sexy stright guys we fall for

[thomasgj]

if a story about my life was written... well... lol. same boat [487325]. i'm always too nervous that it'll ruin our friendship so i just hide my feelings the best i can. wish i could help though :/

[thomasgj]

im in the same boat as u guys
how come its mostly the sexy stright guys we fall for

personally, because they have a masculinity and cockiness that a lot of gay guys lack (specifically the masculine part).

[Drew5]

Noooo! I like my friends even love some of them, but i'm not in love with them.

[Jack1990]

I'm 21. Bi male although still a bit confused. I became friends with a Guy a year younger then myself who I worked with at the time (KFC). This was bak when I was 15 and 16 and I started to notice I had a crush on him. Long story cut short I started to notice he was continually on my mind from the moment I got up to the moment I fell asleep. I got him mobile nber and texted him continually to a progression where it was more like an obsession. This went on for months where I would come home from school and go to my room and cry for hours on end. He was obviously straight btw and clicked on that I liked him and that scared him so itade it more difficult because he got scared and avoided me as much as possible. There is a lot more to this however today he is my mate, we matured and got over our problems. He changed me and my life completely and I still to this day cannot understand why I was so factuated with this guy. I didn't talk to anyone about it so I like that yous are being upfront about your feelings for anotherale and if you ever want to talk to someone I'm keen as to talk. Peace

[Athlete15]

Unfortunately this is all too relatable

[Sean4U]

In 8th grade had the biggest crush on this guy and he was "straight" so I thought......I was already out so he knew I was gay and that didn't bother him.....let me say that we have had some contact, but unfortunately he is more into girls....it was disappointing yes, but we are still friends....good friends

[OregonStateDude]

I'm attracted to my best friend, 'cuz I think he's cute. But I don't have "feelings" for him, other than friendship feelings. It would be pointless; he's already told me he is not emotionally attracted to other guys.

Do I wish he was gay? I guess so, but it just wasn't meant to be. I do love him like a brother, and that's all I can ask for. :)

[Gogeta]

nah i have never wish that
just that hopefully they are up for a bit of fun hahahah

[Cole881]

Same here, he acts gay sometimes, but when we sleepover, i make some moves and he doesnt really care then he acts like im stupid. :/ He jokes around in like a different voice and says he loves me, and says touch my dick. Then when I do he says quit your gay but then he acts like hes gonna kiss me and laughs and backs out:/ He confuses me. I think he might be a little bi but wont show it:/

[youwonthegame]

I mean I'm gay and in high school. Do I even need to answer this question?

This.

[Rukua]

Kind of in the same situation as you my friend, im just curious, but i know my friend is straight, and he is christian..

[Fable]

he is gay! ;D

[BlackieChan21E]

I understand where you are. At the time I thought I was straight, but looking back I was probably bi. But Anywhore. I feel madly in love with my best friend Raymond. He was/ still is perfect.. Almost. He'd not to smart, but he's definitely not stupid. He's an amazing athlete and we became rivals in sport... Though he's clearly better. But for all I knew he was straight. But then he would do and say things that made me question him and love him even more.

Exp.
Once he walked over 2 miles just to keep me company, and had to lie to his mother about it. (This is what made me officially fall for him)

He was always nice to me.
We joked so much and had so much fun together.
He lets me cuddle with him.. In public at that.
We once had a contest to see who could completely violate the others body first! ;) I won, but he finished right after me.

And it like that for 2 years. Then we fall out a little but we're still friends. Then last year (this started in my freshman year, I'm now a senior) I told him how much I used to love him. And now he doesn't treat me any differently than before and we are close again.

But he's straight and has a gf. Soo... Yeah.

Buy my advice. If he's really worth liking. Tell him how you feel and if he still accepts you, go with the flow. If not. Then ignore the douche lol.

Good luck!!

[Troy35216]

not only do i have feelings for my best friend but he's got a girlfriend. whenever i see them together it kills me. it's so hard to act like i don't care of that i'm happy for him when the whole time i'm dying inside.

[Backflipboy]

I've been quite lucky not to ever be in this situation, but the only thing you can do is move on. There's no point even loving a guy who would never love you back under any circumstances.

[giles2603]

I've felt like that a lot before. But they never made any signs of wanting to do stuff or any signs they liked guys. Just try and talk to them about it? Obviously you would have to decide if you did have a relationship, if you want it to be private or don't care about everyone knowing. And I'm sure if he's a real friend then your friendship between you shouldn't change if he says he doesn't feel the same. :)

[Skyline]

All of the time! It sucks!

[The Flash]

Everytime i see "him"

[Aajj333]

I wouldn't mind one of my friends being bi

[cowboys1]

I'd said its normal because it happens all the time

[bbadmarc]

don't crush on a straight guy, it will consume you to no end or it will make things awkward when you are around him that he might freek so think and treat him as if he's your brother and in a non sexual way.. who knows? he might just surprise you one day because of how close you become over time

[zak1234]

Im in the same situation :/

[Zman21]

I am in the same boat. I have really liked my best friend for as long as I can remember but have never said anything cause I think he's straight. The worse part about it is that he is now in the military and I'm am going to go to college very soon so I don't know how many more times I will be able to see him until we never see each other again.

[DerBear]

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