well this is great

[ackmedsgirl666]

so i posted an earlier thread about how i wanted my ex back.. well i just went in my hotmail inbox and found this...


Fine if that's the way you put it
see ya it was about time i've kicked the trash to the curb anyways you made me
hit rock bottom which your probably proud of whatever i'll find a women who is pretty and thin and outstandingly beautiful
you where just a waste of time so see ya don't bother talking to me ever again Ok i'm threw with your garbage anyways
i don't need that shit in my life really, i need a women who will treat me with respect and love and has a job like i do
and since you could'nt have children i did'nt want to stick around anyways. like they say there's a women out there for every man.
honestly you were to much for me anyways you were to clingy and complained alot my family don't like you and you'r family don't like me
ehy it's true so as much fun as you think i had Pft yea right when i get off house arrest on july 6th my lawyer is singing me into the Russian Military BodyGaurd Boot camp so that's what i'll be doing
Oh and remember you got that tattoo on your arm right? mhhm you scared for life

im not sure what to make of this... should i just give up. i miss him so much why did i do this to him, to myself. the fact that he says he wasnt gonna stick round because he wanted kids breaks my heart and knowing i cant have them... im so confused VT and heartbroken what can i do!!!!

[InfinantSilence]

what did you do to him( if this is to personel you don't have to answer. I honestly have never been in this situation. But it sounds to me that he is over you. And as hard as it may be the best thing to probably do is move on. But ultimately it is your decision. Best of luck~Taylor.

[dontfiguremeout]

Ohh my gosh just reading the message sounds like it will be an abusive relationship if you guys get back together. I know EXACTLY how you feel about wanting to be with your lover when they don't love you. And it takes a while to not think about them that often, but just try to not think about him. Especially after this message. I'm sorry about what happened, just try to think positive! :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

hey and thanks guys
well he called me tonight again and all he had to do ws bash my fiance( yes he proposed yay) and like im sick and tired of the bullshit not to mention my ex is 21 and hes sleeping with a 16 year old which is just wrong. im not usually one to judge but he claims shes pretty and skinny and gorgous yet i just looked her up on facebook and shes ugly and fat and looks like shes let herself go. hes got some balls to go nd make me feel like shit and i find out shes twice as ugly as me. anyways im quite pissed off with the way hes acting. like im sorry but as it stands right now i could never be with someone like him ever again.
but how do i get over him is the problem?

[dontfiguremeout]

Honestly, you just got to stop thinking about him. Find a new hobby or try something different to do that you have never done. Anything to take your mind off of him. Then slowly you'll start to forget him.

[Abyssal Echo]

Honestly, you just got to stop thinking about him. Find a new hobby or try something different to do that you have never done. Anything to take your mind off of him. Then slowly you'll start to forget him.

Sounds like good advice :) just forget about the jurk and find someone else that will appreciate you

[ackmedsgirl666]

he called me house at 5 this morning and left me a threatening voicemail
i just cant take this anymore
wtf do i do?

[dontfiguremeout]

If you feel like he is going to come to your house and seriously hurt you, then next things is make sure you can call the cops. That's only if you really feel like your in danger.

[ackmedsgirl666]

hes on house arrest so i dont think he will go that far

[lilmamabowers]

I think this guy sounds like a total jerk and a beautiful girl shouldn't take the chance of being hurt by him.

[Breakeven]

I think u deserve better , u deserve someone to love u for who u are n no matter what , kids won't make him stay , u deserve someone will stay even if u can't have kids , don't give ur self short , i Know u miss him but u will find better , and plus if it was meant to be then he will come back by himself

[ackmedsgirl666]

ive decided that my current means the world to me
he got me out of an abusive relationship and his mom took me in when i had nowhere to live. i love my current to bits and pieces. i dont think i could ever change that not now not ever. cody just needs to focus on himself and figure himself out. like right now hes 21 and hes seeing a 16 year old.... kinda gross but maybe im bit jelous. i dont mean to be but it just happens. but like i said my boyfriend actually hs an account on here if anybody wants to chat/pm him
ackmedslayer556

[Swa19]

With complete honesty the first thing i thought reading his message to you was "what a complete illiterate jackass." I don't usually like to judge but jesus christ. Call me a hypocrite or whatever have you, but that is down right wrong. He sounded like he has some deep issues with letting you go and that email was more about him giving excuses to why your relationship ended for himself. For the sake of a heartbroken, (and to my knowledge) goo person like yourself, i sure as hell hope I am wrong. The best thing to do is move on. It will hurt for a LONG time most likely and it will not give many instant rewards. Although it is the best thing too do for BOTH of you. Remember he is a person too and you have to consider his feelings as well as your own. That's the mature way to deal with it. Just tell him that you don't want to talk to him anymore and you want to move on, If he tries to call you or contact you tell him the same thing or just don't respond and let him leave a message. Of course listen to the message to make sure he isn't continuing to threaten you. It is very late and i believe i am starting to ramble and have maybe spelling and grammar errors which makes me a hypocrite. So im going to end this post now, if you want any more advice please PM me, or if this wasn't of any help at all i deeply apologize for wasting your time.

Goodluck to all of you in this situation, i sincerely hope the best! :)

[ackmedslayer556]

listen to these guys baby. although there pretty telling u the same thing i have for 5 months now

[ackmedsgirl666]

With complete honesty the first thing i thought reading his message to you was "what a complete illiterate jackass." I don't usually like to judge but jesus christ. Call me a hypocrite or whatever have you, but that is down right wrong. He sounded like he has some deep issues with letting you go and that email was more about him giving excuses to why your relationship ended for himself. For the sake of a heartbroken, (and to my knowledge) goo person like yourself, i sure as hell hope I am wrong. The best thing to do is move on. It will hurt for a LONG time most likely and it will not give many instant rewards. Although it is the best thing too do for BOTH of you. Remember he is a person too and you have to consider his feelings as well as your own. That's the mature way to deal with it. Just tell him that you don't want to talk to him anymore and you want to move on, If he tries to call you or contact you tell him the same thing or just don't respond and let him leave a message. Of course listen to the message to make sure he isn't continuing to threaten you. It is very late and i believe i am starting to ramble and have maybe spelling and grammar errors which makes me a hypocrite. So im going to end this post now, if you want any more advice please PM me, or if this wasn't of any help at all i deeply apologize for wasting your time.

Goodluck to all of you in this situation, i sincerely hope the best! :)

thn ks for the advice. was very helpful