stressed out

[stew4rt]

I've never experimented or been through a gay phase but I have taken attraction to guys lately and feel like I want to experiment. I don't know if I'm late going through this as it is confusing me over my sexuality, and as I'm 18 it my age makes it harder to to ask to experiment. The whole thing is confusing me and stressing me out!:confused:If I am bi I can accept this but I've no idea how I'm going to tell my family:(

[Stryker125]

Don't worry about it man, I'm sort of going through the same thing. Puberty isn't over until your early 20s, so you've still got a bit of time to figure that kind of stuff out.

[stew4rt]

Don't worry about it man, I'm sort of going through the same thing. Puberty isn't over until your early 20s, so you've still got a bit of time to figure that kind of stuff out.

thank you, hope you goes well for you too :)

[Stryker125]

thanks, you too :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Don't worry. There's a lot of guys out there who are in your shoes too. I think the main reason for me is if a friendship will go through. I say friendship is more important than experimenting.

[whiteyrhys]

Don’t worry about it! :)

You’re normal – it’s natural for guys going through puberty to be attracted to the same sex at times.

Puberty is the defining moment of a person’s life.

You should only experiment if you feel that it is something you want to do. I understand how at the age you are can affect the ability and understanding of other guys should you ask them to experiment, try finding another guy on here who’s going through the same situation, although distance issues may pose a problem.

I would say that Craigslist is another option but you’ve got to be very careful when using that, make sure you see pictures (even cam) with another guy to know they are genuine and maybe talk to them over the phone.

In terms of telling your family – you only need to do that when you feel you are ready to do so, don’t feel pressured to. Perhaps when you have recognised if you are bisexual then wait until you’re in a relationship you feel is going somewhere…then tell them?

I hope this helps and your confusion goes away

[stew4rt]

Don’t worry about it! :)

You’re normal – it’s natural for guys going through puberty to be attracted to the same sex at times.

Puberty is the defining moment of a person’s life.

You should only experiment if you feel that it is something you want to do. I understand how at the age you are can affect the ability and understanding of other guys should you ask them to experiment, try finding another guy on here who’s going through the same situation, although distance issues may pose a problem.

I would say that Craigslist is another option but you’ve got to be very careful when using that, make sure you see pictures (even cam) with another guy to know they are genuine and maybe talk to them over the phone.

In terms of telling your family – you only need to do that when you feel you are ready to do so, don’t feel pressured to. Perhaps when you have recognised if you are bisexual then wait until you’re in a relationship you feel is going somewhere…then tell them?

I hope this helps and your confusion goes away

thank you for the advice, very helpful :)

[loganbenson]

It's normal...dont worry about it, and the day you find out who you really are then start to worry