Do I tell him

[Lolli]

I like this guy at school, he is really lovely, really my type.
We talk a lot and flirt too. There's only a friendship ATM but I'd happily have a relationship lol.
Problem is my relationship past is a lil shitty tbh. I had what you call a slutty phase. And slept with 4 guys that didn't mean anything to me repeated times.
Me and this guy had a brief conversation about past relationships etc and he admitted he is a virgin and never had a serious relationship.
If he asks about my past do I tell him or not??

[DarkHorse4eva]

tell him the trueth, its always the best u can do

[Desuetude]

If you want a real relationship with him then in my opinion i say be honest. Tell him but say you were immature and childish then, you've grown up now and you like him. It's better him finding out now rather than further down the line when you're in a relationship, right?

[Lolli]

True, he knows I'm not a virgin but he doesn't know anymore than that, I just worry he'll think badly of me for my mistakes :L

[Desuetude]

True, he knows I'm not a virgin but he doesn't know anymore than that, I just worry he'll think badly of me for my mistakes :L
That's just it though, they're mistakes, in the past now. If he can't look past that (the person that you used to be) and see that you've changed and matured now then he's not really worth it. He should be able to trust you and see you for who you really are. If you leave it until later to tell him the trust between is likely to be dented.

[RCT109]

if he truly likes you and you him then tell him
because if he finds out from someone else then its all over