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vincent_jamez
June 22nd, 2012, 04:13 PM
Okay, well first off, I'm a 17 your old male, I'm bi and this is about another guy.
Just wanted to throw that out there so people know what they're about to get themselves into lmfao.

What's going on is I have a best friend. He knows I'm bi. Me and him talk every single day, ALL day for that matter. Anything that's ever gone on between me and another guy, he's been there for me through it all. He knows everything to... Who I'm talking to. Who I've hooked up with. Who I think is attractive. Who I've been through heart breaks with. He always gives me advice and tells me what I should do or what I should have done. I wanna say he's straight... But he's not. He doesn't say he's gay/bi. But me and him just wound up sexting a few nights ago. For the first time, his first time sexting EVER. Which was a signal for me. But anyway! I've had the strongest feelings for him for a long time now and I kinda broke the ice and told him. But he really just doesn't get it. I need something to say or a way to put it through his head. He said "don't let your sensual feelings make you think you like me now" because I really don't care. I tell him all the time how attraxtive I think he is and all the dirty comments I make to him (that he knows I'm 100% serious about haha). But when I said I was pretty serious he was just like "LOL sex is your best friend! C'Mon."
I think it's because since he's heard all the stories or whenever a guy is brought up I'm like "OMG SO HOT." To the point where he thinks that my mentality is nothing but my 'penis over heart' and that me liking him is just my hormones messing with me;
someone help please?:(

Guillermo
June 22nd, 2012, 11:31 PM
Actually, I think that's why he might not have the same feelings for you... He's probably just very curious. He hasn't said himself that he's gay/bi... So who knows he could actually just be straight, yet very very curious. But who knows, he sounds kind of insecure himself and he just may not want a relationship. So, if I were you, I wouldn't pursue him anymore because he's either not gay/bi or he's just insecure. Now this could change, but I'd let him change on his own. And hey, you can still be friends. :)