Jealously.

[beebs]

I wasnt really sure where to put this, so ill just stick it here...

I get extremely attached and jealous of my friends and the guy I like, who happens to be one of my best friends. It's when I see they have met up with other friends, and seem to be having such a good time with them and without me. My bestfriend has lots, and lots of other friends, and everytime I hear she has been with them, it make me want to scream.

And with this guy I like, Its even worse, for example, yesterday we went on a school trip, and we sat together on the way there, then he saw his other friend in another coach, and started shouting at her, and was practically ignoring me, then he saw her later and ran up to her, and left me.

I know they are allowed other friends, and I try not to get jealous, but I really can't help it. It sounds like im controlling, im not, I dont tell them who to hang out with, they do what they want. But it just makes me so upset to see them with other people.

And I want to sort this out, so I can stop being jealous, because I really don't want to loose them.

Help?

[Guillermo]

I know it may seem a bit awkward but when your friends meet up with these other friends, I think that maybe you should chat with them too. If you meet these other friends, then you'll become friends with them too and I think maybe that will lower your jealousy towards them. And hey, it doesn't hurt to meet new friends, does it?

[MikeyCool]

Stop caring too much. I was the same back then like really back then. I always wanted to hangout with this person but it always get too attached so what I did is make it equal to everyone. Don't! Be! Obsessed! You just gotta accept that life is that way. If you are being left, be like okay see ya. And go to another friend.

[beebs]

I have 3 friends guys, my best friend who has lots of other friends, that I can't meet because she and her friends live really far away, the guy I like, who is friends with people who have told me to kill myself, and a girl in the year above. I can't just go to another friend if one of them leave me...