dmeek7
June 22nd, 2012, 02:37 AM
Ok, So I was watching an Onision video on youtube.....I generally do not like him or any of his views, so I stopped watching his videos a long time ago. I was bored and his name came to mind, so I watched this one video that got me thinking....... He was talking about losing your virginity. His view is that your virginity and having sex is pretty much basically a sacred thing. Wait for someone really special, and then even then, think twice about it.. I realize his view is alot like most super duper religious people.
*Disclaimer.....Everyone has their own views. They are legally and generally entitled to their own views on life's own problems and everyday occurances.
My question to you all is: Do you think losing your virginity and overall, having sex, should be as huge of a deal as it's cracked up to be? I will share my opinion now.
If you think about it, having sex has two very big risks. Number one is producing a child, and number two is getting diseases and STDs. Those are obvious and everyone knows about them......There are also many ways to prevent those. There are certain ways that prevent them 100% (not abstinence).................think about that, while also thinking about this: What sport, or recreational activity, or fun activity, or any day to day activity has no risks? From skydiving and bodysuit flying to walking or swinging on a swing, everything we do has risks. a lot of the things we eat/drink are bad for us. There are risks involved with everything. The best thing we can do is prevent the risks right? Helmets for things that have head injury risks....pills for chemical risks.......
Right. With all that being said. Yes there are two main risks to having sex, but those can be prevented almost to 100% with modern safety techniques, pills, etc....I say, if you understand the risks, and you at least try to prevent unwanted things from happening, ALONG WITH a willing partner who also understands the risks, It should not be a huge deal. For all I care, it can be just another activity done for just the sheer pleasure of it. If two people want to feel good, and both are willing with knowledge of consequences, go ahead and have sex...........
I realize that I strayed from the initial topic, and I'm not sure If I came back to it in the end, but even still. I think I had some good thoughts in there. If you understood what I was trying to get at, tell me your thoughts. Everyone has their opinion.
*Disclaimer.....Everyone has their own views. They are legally and generally entitled to their own views on life's own problems and everyday occurances.
My question to you all is: Do you think losing your virginity and overall, having sex, should be as huge of a deal as it's cracked up to be? I will share my opinion now.
If you think about it, having sex has two very big risks. Number one is producing a child, and number two is getting diseases and STDs. Those are obvious and everyone knows about them......There are also many ways to prevent those. There are certain ways that prevent them 100% (not abstinence).................think about that, while also thinking about this: What sport, or recreational activity, or fun activity, or any day to day activity has no risks? From skydiving and bodysuit flying to walking or swinging on a swing, everything we do has risks. a lot of the things we eat/drink are bad for us. There are risks involved with everything. The best thing we can do is prevent the risks right? Helmets for things that have head injury risks....pills for chemical risks.......
Right. With all that being said. Yes there are two main risks to having sex, but those can be prevented almost to 100% with modern safety techniques, pills, etc....I say, if you understand the risks, and you at least try to prevent unwanted things from happening, ALONG WITH a willing partner who also understands the risks, It should not be a huge deal. For all I care, it can be just another activity done for just the sheer pleasure of it. If two people want to feel good, and both are willing with knowledge of consequences, go ahead and have sex...........
I realize that I strayed from the initial topic, and I'm not sure If I came back to it in the end, but even still. I think I had some good thoughts in there. If you understood what I was trying to get at, tell me your thoughts. Everyone has their opinion.