Aceso
June 21st, 2012, 08:53 AM
Just wondering here ladies, am I the only one slightly turned off when a guy wants you to send dirty texts or conversations?
It really makes me uncomfortable when they get really into it, along with the fact that they kind of ASK you to talk or send them stuff. I'm a naturally shy person about myself and that kinda thing anyway, so when a guy's being overly descriptive about his manhood and comes up with some crude, alarmingly explicit and generally poorly spelt text (please keep in mind I don't actually ask for any of this o.0 ) it really makes me freak out and back off completely.
I mean, perhaps if it were someone who I was in a relationship with, trusted and if I were in the mood I might not mind some carefully thought up, artfully worded fantasy, but it'd really take me a while to get used to the idea, when someone says ''I'm in the mood, talk dirty to me;)'' I don't know where to start or what to say anyway. It might be that I've only had one past relationship with a person that sent me some particularly weird and creepy texts and conversations, and the only time I've actually responded to such requests so I've not had a great experience of what a typical relationship is like anyway.
Just wondering though, is anyone else like this? Do you have some do's and don's that are acceptable in these kind of situations? Let me know :)
It really makes me uncomfortable when they get really into it, along with the fact that they kind of ASK you to talk or send them stuff. I'm a naturally shy person about myself and that kinda thing anyway, so when a guy's being overly descriptive about his manhood and comes up with some crude, alarmingly explicit and generally poorly spelt text (please keep in mind I don't actually ask for any of this o.0 ) it really makes me freak out and back off completely.
I mean, perhaps if it were someone who I was in a relationship with, trusted and if I were in the mood I might not mind some carefully thought up, artfully worded fantasy, but it'd really take me a while to get used to the idea, when someone says ''I'm in the mood, talk dirty to me;)'' I don't know where to start or what to say anyway. It might be that I've only had one past relationship with a person that sent me some particularly weird and creepy texts and conversations, and the only time I've actually responded to such requests so I've not had a great experience of what a typical relationship is like anyway.
Just wondering though, is anyone else like this? Do you have some do's and don's that are acceptable in these kind of situations? Let me know :)