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smile4me
June 20th, 2012, 11:26 PM
Well this might be long. I have been going out with my best friends sister before, we went out for about 9 months. We broke up because of family problems. We knew we were meant to be. So after 4 months we got back in touch but became close friends and she told me she was going out with someone, I kinda felt like my heart dropped. But I knew she was going out with a pure douche, and I got another Girlfriend it went pretty good for 11 months till I got into a fight with some stupid kids and she didn't like me fighting so we broke up. My ex told me she broke up with her BF and I thought I might have a chance with her again. After she broke up we started to talk more often but she told me we were only really close friends. I wanted to meet up with her which we did and idk what happened and we got together. But she changed she always puts herself down and she said she was really depressed.

What should I do?? I am a writer and I write stuff to her but I don't think it even does anything to help her. Please help I need some advice to find out how to get her to love me more and how to make her more happy.
FullyAlive
June 21st, 2012, 12:38 PM
There isn't going to be a magic cure to make her happy again you just have to love her, take her out and do nice things remind her she's beautiful and lovely, and when she's sad buy her chocolate and hold her. There's nothing specific you can do just be there for her.
ImCoolBeans
June 21st, 2012, 01:26 PM
There isn't going to be a magic cure to make her happy again you just have to love her, take her out and do nice things remind her she's beautiful and lovely, and when she's sad buy her chocolate and hold her. There's nothing specific you can do just be there for her.

This is good advice. The best thing you can do is just be there for her and show her how much you care and that you do really love her like you say you do. Try to be the best boyfriend you can be. Do nice things for her, make her feel good about herself, make her realize that she isn't low like she believes that she is.
smile4me
June 21st, 2012, 03:35 PM
I have tried many things. But this Saturday I am meeting with her at a local park, I have written something for her that might get her to become Happier. I will consider getting her chocolate. Thanks for the advice.

This is something new that I have wrote and will give to her.

You are the butterfly that I see with my eyes.
You are the blood that pumps through my heart.
You are the one who found that Lone wolf.
You are the opposite that attracts me.
You are my everything to my everything.