Still a vergin

[branman2000]

Im 17 and I'm also still a vergin. But I was also raised in a very christian home. Does anyone else want to wait until they get married? I don't neccisaraly want to wait, I just know my family would disown me if I got a girl pregnant before I get married, or if they just found out that I did have sex.

[BaNd]

well sorry but its virgin and i really don't want to wait and there is protection and if you didn't happen to get her prego I don't think they would find out unless you left something somewhere or they walked in on you or you tell them

[Stryker125]

You shouldn't be ashamed to be a virgin...it's really no big deal. I'm 19 and a virgin..I'm also christian, and I don't know about marriage, but I don't really plan on having sex until I fall in love. Sex is a big deal to me, and I don't want to have it with just anyone, ya know?

When my dad was giving me "the talk" as awkward and uncomfortable as it was, something he said stuck with me. "If you're gonna have sex, make sure it's with someone you'd be okay being around for at least the next 18 years. Because if she get's pregnant, that's exactly what's going to happen."

[Enormous]

I'm a virgin and I'm 18 but I'm not Christian. When the time is right I'll lose it, it really doesn't worry me.

[this_kids_a_DJ]

You shouldn't be ashamed to be a virgin...it's really no big deal. I'm 19 and a virgin..I'm also christian, and I don't know about marriage, but I don't really plan on having sex until I fall in love. Sex is a big deal to me, and I don't want to have it with just anyone, ya know?

When my dad was giving me "the talk" as awkward and uncomfortable as it was, something he said stuck with me. "If you're gonna have sex, make sure it's with someone you'd be okay being around for at least the next 18 years. Because if she get's pregnant, that's exactly what's going to happen."

This is EXACTLY how I feel aside from the talk part (I never got that), I am also 19 and despite raging hormones when I was younger, I put my morals first. Pleasuring yourself is a different thing, but also doesn't take your v-card.

[AHSboy]

I'm 18 and a virgin. I'm catholic too. It's not that my religion frowns upon it, or my parents would shun me. My mom even asked me if I have emergency condoms because I should "dip my toes in the water." but I want to wait because it's what I want to do. In my faith, like many others, women who are not virgins cannot wear pure white when they get married. If I find a virgin girl and we get married, if she is wearing white for the right reason, I want to say that I was clean too. But that's my choice. I thought it was wrong for my mom's coworker to wear white to a wedding that her four year old daughter was a part of. I don't want my bride to lie like that, so why would I do the same?

[Rodeo]

I am 17 and virgin and christian like you I plan to wait I plan to wait until marriage for sure just because that is my choice. I want to be pure for my bride and I hope she is the same. I don't know that I would get disowned if I didn't wait but I am planning to.

[xaydavis]

Im a virgin and just not ready yet

[branman2000]

Cool, I think it just helps to hear from other people like me. Thanks everyone, and ya... Im the worst speller.

[Overcast]

well, i don't plan on losing it, i hope it will happen. also, i will want me to be ready, the right moment, you know? and it doesn't matter what age you are, there is no race to lose your virginity!

[TurboDieselBandit]

I'm a virgin and plan to be one until married. What's the rush anyway, if you have all your fun now, all you have nothing to really look forward to.

[Pipo]

I'm 18 and virgin, honestly I don't think about it that much ^^

better to be virgin than be the guy in those stories "I wish I'd be virgin still I lost it at age of X" y'know?

I'd rather lose it to someone who is really important to me than a friend with who I did "experimenting" :cool:

[jnhbgvbhgv21]

I might wait until marriage, but if I don't, I'll always use a condom just incase.

[OregonStateDude]

I'm still a virgin and it doesn't bother me at all. As to marriage, that may or may not be an option for me, depending on how this November voter thingy goes.

But yeah, I'm not giving up my cherry unless it's to a boy I really care about.

[LatinaVivit]

Having sex doesn't mean a girl will get pregnant. It's your body, choose for yourself!:)

[irish_dude_16]

still a virgin but i dont care

[Salader]

Personally I don't want to wait until marriage. However the way you make your family sound. At least wait until your in love before having sex.

[adam94]

I also come from a very christian home, and i am still a virgin. i am just waiting for the right person!!

[Evancosta]

If my family threatened to disown me for anything like that I would disown them. That's ridiculous. Just keep your cock in a condom and go have fun. But you're not the only 17 year old virgin out there, there are tons of others. BTW you spelled virgin wrong.

[The captain]

Im still virgin and want to be really in love for having sex

[aambler16]

I know what you mean and I kinda want to wait but I dont really know what to do either

[Cognizant]

I'm a virgin, and I want to wait until I'm at least 18 before losing my virginity.
(Though I doubt I'll make it :P)

[LyaJen]

HERE'S THE YOUNG GIRL POSTERR. haha
okay, it doesn't matter. I actually have more respect for people like that. They're not just giving their bodies away.
but otherwise, it's your body. do whatever the hell you want with it.
I'm waiting until i'm 18... because i don't want to have a child in highschool, and it would be awkward for my parents to find birth control somewhere. :3

[danny7]

Dats why I'm atheist and hate religion.. but I definitely will (again) have sex

[Josh Schlacter]

Im waiting till marriage, im a christian.

[habbohop]

I'm a Christian too, I don't plan on doing it to I have sex, it's what God wanted?

[thaynjr17]

16 and still a virgin. Just waiting for the right person to do it with.

[andrethaiss]

Im a virgin too and im not having sex till 18 at least but hopefully after marriage. Its embarrassing how 13 year old kids are having sex now a days. I feel proud actually and i guess that shows that you were raised in a good home :)

[The realist]

I didnt wait but if its your beliefs its your decision

[chiisaiaoiryu]

No need to worry about still being a virgin. Everybody feels differently about the subject be it from their own personal experience or outside influence like parents and such. Don't feel pressured into losing your virginity and feeling like the only teen who hasn't had sex. that's never the truth; so just wait until you yourself feel ready. Don't worry about what other people think or say; so long as you're comfortable and feel ready.

[McMantis]

im not waiting lol

[cromartywdl]

I'm 17 and still a virgin and my house isn't Christian one bit,but I'm just want to be ready ya know

[deathmoonO2]

Just enjoy life dude. Love is not about sex. :) We will all get there

[CranberryBridge]

I'm waiting till marriage for women, because I don't want to take the chance on pregnancy. But being that I'm bi, I would have sex with a guy before marriage.

[Luke91]

Still a virgin and proud of it. You can only give it away once and I want it to go to my wife. Christian.

[RunnerForLife]

I'm a virgin and a Christian. I'm waiting til marriage but the stupid hormones makes me have a craving for sex. It's hard but it'll be worth it!

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Just enjoy life dude. Love is not about sex. :) We will all get there

Im a virgin myself and very true! Its not about sex alone... Lets not get into it all but yes, you dont need to have sex to love someone!

[Michael702]

Virgin by choice waiting for the right girl

[Machinegun]

I´m 19 and I'm still a virgin.. soemtimes I feel like i take the right decision and sometimes I feel like I´m gonna die being a virgin : / ( it sucks)

[Abyssal Echo]

nope I'm not a virgin lost it along time ago to a good friend

[Digital]

its completely normal to be a virgin at age of 17

[CuriousGuy17]

I'm a virgin too, but not by choice. If the opportunity came around, I'd go for it. I would really like it to be with someone I love, but I think a bit of shared lust would do just as well.

I'm not sure if I'll end up losing it to a girl or guy just yet. I'm really wondering how each would be at the moment.

[Polski101]

I would say go with what your heart believes in and not what everyone else thinks as you control yourself. If my Parents found out what I was up to I would be thrown out but one thing is, they can't tell me not to love and love makes you do strange things. If you feel ready, go for it whether brought up Religiously or not because it is you who decides and not anyone else. I was brought up religiously but that don't mean anything sometimes when you really meet someone you love

[virgcross]

I am 18 and fully virgin like extra virgin olive oil...neveer down anything xD so it is all cool.

[Straight]

I'm 15 and I don't feel the need for sex

[alexkun]

theres nothing wrong with waiting.. but if you cant.. just make sure to do it with someone you really love.. not just some random girl or guy.. you know..

[Jody]

I'm 18 and still a virgin. It has to do with my religion (Catholic), and my personal choice. My belief is, and this is my church's stance as well, that marriage is the time to have sex. I believe strongly that you should have sex with the person you love, and not the hottest girl in the school, or the girl with the biggest boobs. Sex is a very, very important thing, and you should do it with the person you love, and the person you plan to live your whole life with. Mind you I am a pretty religious person (oddly enough I am bisexual, which goes against my church's teachings :P), and also very conservative.

That's my two cents.

[drummerboi987]

When my dad was giving me "the talk" as awkward and uncomfortable as it was, something he said stuck with me. "If you're gonna have sex, make sure it's with someone you'd be okay being around for at least the next 18 years. Because if she get's pregnant, that's exactly what's going to happen."


This is the best advice you could get.

[ImAJock]

Im 15 and havent done the deed yet.I could have ut chose not to. im probly gonna wait till marriage

[Tinker]

im still a virgin and 17

[Cycling Penguin]

I am a virgin bit and going to have sex before marriage because, well, I'm not going to get married!

[aldabanana]

I would wait because there's more to it than the physical feeling, there's a whole matter of the intimate emotional side as well.

[Danny_boi 16]

I'm a virgin that cool with me, and it cool you are too. If i had sex or got a girl pregnant. My parents kill me, slowly and painfully.

[Borxar]

Mm I believe that if you can't not have sex with someone, then thats not really love. Love waits.

[Butmunch]

Best to wait for her or him and not chuck it to some girl or boy

[alphus]

Don't rush into things! If it happens it happens and make sure to use a condom :) If you do get a girl pregnant (which shouldn't happen if you're careful) then I'm sure your parents will be supportive and help you make some really tough decisions!

[StoppingTime]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: