View Full Version : How to even react to this...
yolo
June 20th, 2012, 07:28 PM
My friend was over the other night and I was changin infront of him and he grabbed my junk and started wakin me off. I backed off and was like wtf... He's like cmon man let's jerk it....
RCT109
June 20th, 2012, 07:36 PM
I would react the same way you did
kingpin16
June 20th, 2012, 07:50 PM
Depends did u like it, he might juust be curious and wants to experiment
StoppingTime
June 20th, 2012, 07:58 PM
If you felt uncomfortable, then you need to talk to him. It was completely uncalled for, and he should have been able to control himself. If he does it again, then you may need to take this problem further.
Personally, I wouldn't be so forgiving about it. Just ask him why he did it to start off.
kingpin16
June 20th, 2012, 08:07 PM
I also agree with shoppingtime he should have asked u first and u should tlk to him
Abyssal Echo
June 20th, 2012, 08:11 PM
I would react the same way you did
yup same here. it one thing to talk about it and agree to doing things together its totally wrong just to reach out and grab someones junk and expect him to cooperate.
BaNd
June 20th, 2012, 08:15 PM
same way but idk i might have ended up doing it maybe idk
Enormous
June 20th, 2012, 08:15 PM
I suppose he felt comfortable enough with you to do that and he thought that you would've reacted differently than how you did. I probably would feel uncomfortable too if that happened to me.
Remember: Hormones!!
Rodeo
June 20th, 2012, 11:21 PM
He should have asked you first but personally since I have experimented some I probably would have let him do it.
connormac
June 20th, 2012, 11:28 PM
I'd be like fuck yeah
kingpin16
June 20th, 2012, 11:31 PM
I'd be like fuck yeah
Hahahaha awesome lol
rockymountainway
June 20th, 2012, 11:33 PM
Personally, I'd be a little startled at the approach, but I'd go with it. That's just me, though. If YOU feel uncomfortable, tell him that. It was rude and inappropriate. Hopefully he'll apologize. If not, well, forgive and forget. Just tell him to not do it again.
Matt_is_Awesome
June 20th, 2012, 11:46 PM
dude i would be like wtf man
MikeyCool
June 21st, 2012, 01:30 AM
Depends if you're into those stuff. I would react the same but I'd let him after :) It's just a shock at first...for me.
Racer4life25
June 21st, 2012, 01:22 PM
I'd be like fuck yeah
what he said! haha
RayRay
June 21st, 2012, 01:26 PM
I would be like hell yeah!!
SamB
June 21st, 2012, 01:30 PM
I would have done the same as you, it is sexual harassment. I would suggest that you talk to him tell him that it wasn't ok, and that he should have asked you before just grabbing you.
Gigablue
June 21st, 2012, 05:27 PM
He was probably just curious and thought you would have reacted differently. You should probably just ignore it unless he tries it again, in which case you should tell him you're not interested in experimenting.
Coolboi
June 21st, 2012, 06:45 PM
I would not be happy bout that in less I wanted to Jo with him but don't touch me in less I let you! wtf is right .
predatorsfan21
June 21st, 2012, 06:54 PM
1) Your username is "YOLO", obviously someone isnt living up to the username ;)
2) Tell him. Tell him he crossed a line. Don't make it difficult on yourself.
ffej
June 21st, 2012, 07:01 PM
I would be weirded out till he said lets jerk, then it would be on! haha
BrassMonkey
June 22nd, 2012, 01:44 AM
I mean, I would have reacted the same way, but after that little shock I would be like what the heck, sure.
Diverperry
June 22nd, 2012, 03:15 PM
ya if it's out of the blue and uncalled for then just ignore it and talk to him about it if it happens again
leafgreenangel
June 22nd, 2012, 03:53 PM
well i would have been startled but if i wanted to jack off with the person that did this i would
farmer42296
June 23rd, 2012, 01:38 PM
I would have let him do it, but in turn he would have to let me jack him off
Bicuriousboy
June 23rd, 2012, 01:57 PM
I think it is kinda weird if he made you uncomfortable, but he just wants to experiment.
So, and im not saying you are, but dont neglect him hes just trying to figure things out.
Whoiskevin
June 24th, 2012, 01:22 AM
I would start doing the same to him
Elmo101
June 24th, 2012, 01:33 AM
I'd be like fuck yeah
Same here! I'd be open to the experience!
AndCuriousGuy16
June 24th, 2012, 07:27 PM
Idk but i would be fine with it unless i didnt know him.
fastcar
June 24th, 2012, 07:36 PM
I also agree with shoppingtime post #4
ExhibitG
June 25th, 2012, 11:33 PM
1) Your username is "YOLO", obviously someone isnt living up to the username ;)
LOL. ^
but seriously, personally i would have reacted in a similar way to you but i probably would have let him continue afterward hahaha. if you were that uncomfortable though, confront him.
Sean4U
July 2nd, 2012, 03:22 PM
Dude, I'm gay and I would have been like others ---- WTF. Its one thing to play around but to just grab you and start to jerk you man that's not right. Are you gay and out? If so he probably thought it would be ok, but still, there should ahve been some discussion about it all first.
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Jarredm3
August 6th, 2012, 03:15 AM
I'd be like fuck yeah
Haha yeah me too
cerney
August 6th, 2012, 08:06 AM
id we like "whoaaa......da fuckkk?" at first but if i wanted to jack off with hime (probs not) then i would go with it.
Troy14
August 6th, 2012, 08:57 AM
Honestly I think I would punch him in the face , he should have asked first
Pyro99
August 8th, 2012, 01:55 PM
I wish that would happen to me.I really want my best friend to jerk me off.I think that I'll probably invite him over for a sleepover and change infront of him so that he'll se my cock.I'll probably ask him if he's okay with me changing infront of him though.
volleyball17
August 8th, 2012, 03:20 PM
should ask
thaynjr17
August 9th, 2012, 03:24 AM
I'd probably freak out too.
Michael Anthony
August 9th, 2012, 04:01 AM
i would let him keep going and say "thank you" LOL
Levy
August 9th, 2012, 05:48 AM
Free handjob is free.
The realist
August 9th, 2012, 02:12 PM
Id let him but im bi lol
habbohop
August 9th, 2012, 05:10 PM
It's okay to feel uncomfortable, but he is just experimenting, so don't do anything unless you completely want to,
giles2603
August 9th, 2012, 06:32 PM
If you liked you then ask him to do it again.. if not then just forget about it... like everyone else said hes just experimenting
Lego
August 9th, 2012, 06:57 PM
This is not ok you reacted the right way hes either gay or very curious to jump at you like that
The Flash
August 10th, 2012, 12:30 AM
i would let him
Evancosta
August 10th, 2012, 01:00 AM
Personally, I wouldn't mind. I hand job is a hand job. But I would be a little shocked. It really depends on the situation.
West Coast Sheriff
August 10th, 2012, 02:42 AM
I would prPobly do same thing u did
minecraftmstr
August 10th, 2012, 03:50 AM
maybe he was too eager to ask
lol
but yah he should have asked
or atleast told u he was going to
PinkFloyd
August 10th, 2012, 03:52 AM
Well since I am a very strait person I would flip out. I'm gonna guess you're the same way. You should tell him that it was not right of him to just out of the blue violate you like that. My guess he will cooperate. PM me if you need anything.
- Rob
acid_rayne
August 10th, 2012, 09:41 PM
Thats kinda a hard one. Really he should have asked you because that is kinda a breach of privity
justin123
August 10th, 2012, 09:58 PM
Its just ur opinion. I would let him.
ahowardj88
August 10th, 2012, 11:42 PM
Depends if you're into those stuff. I would react the same but I'd let him after :) It's just a shock at first...for me.
same
Ben_E
August 11th, 2012, 01:20 AM
If it made you uncomfortable then you've got to talk to him and tell him that it wasn't kewl to do that. It does seem like a very straight forward way to see if your mate wants to jack with you, guess he thought you'd be kewl with it so thats why he did it. There's nothing wrong with jacking with mates, i find it fun.
Scottydog
August 13th, 2012, 07:35 PM
I'd go for it :)
LeftyD
August 13th, 2012, 10:09 PM
I'd probably back away like you but the just sit back and let him go to town
Jimmy97
August 25th, 2012, 06:31 PM
I'd be like fuck yeah
And i would join you!:yes:
Danny_boi 16
August 25th, 2012, 06:40 PM
did you like it, if not talk to him about it
JimmyIsNowAMan
August 25th, 2012, 06:47 PM
Dude, he grabbed your junk without asking...not like flicking a fly off your shoulder. But if you want him to keep going on, teach him how to ask first cuz if he tries this with another guy he might be missing some teeth afterwards.
Athlete15
August 25th, 2012, 06:55 PM
Well its easier then masturbating at least.
Thepolice5291
August 25th, 2012, 07:16 PM
I Would have been like wtf and probably wouldn't be his friend That for me is way over the line
Human
August 25th, 2012, 07:25 PM
if liked it, you might as well continue
if not, tell him to back off
curiousme
August 25th, 2012, 08:10 PM
ok, so if it were me i would most likely let him keep doing it but in your case if you didnt like it tell him
Gogeta
August 25th, 2012, 08:30 PM
Like it says in your name man YOLO :P
just go for it if you liked it
Machinegun
August 25th, 2012, 09:20 PM
itīs your choice..You can choose
Cartor
August 25th, 2012, 09:22 PM
I would have gone with it but he really should have asked first.
Danny_boi 16
August 26th, 2012, 02:07 PM
if liked it, you might as well continue
if not, tell him to back off
^ what he said:P
Digital
August 26th, 2012, 02:16 PM
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davidoff
August 26th, 2012, 02:26 PM
I'd be like fuck yeah
:yes:
Digital
August 26th, 2012, 02:31 PM
http://www.mmook.com Selling in-game Currency for MMO's!
RunnerForLife
August 26th, 2012, 04:00 PM
My friend was over the other night and I was changin infront of him and he grabbed my junk and started wakin me off. I backed off and was like wtf... He's like cmon man let's jerk it....
At first I would probably react like that but depending in the person I would probably jerk off with him
chiisaiaoiryu
August 26th, 2012, 07:34 PM
I'd also react the same way as you; however, I'd also keep in mind that I should listen to his explanation. If he's your good friend, don't let something like this ruin it regardless whether or not there was any jerking off involved. Good friends talk to each other and don't just disconnect over something relatively small as this. Trust me; lying and unreliability are grounds to lose friendships and go all argumentative over; this is too low on the argument ladder to be of much long-term consideration.
OregonStateDude
August 26th, 2012, 09:17 PM
My friend was over the other night and I was changin infront of him and he grabbed my junk and started wakin me off. I backed off and was like wtf... He's like cmon man let's jerk it....
Yeah, I think I would freak out if one of my friends did that to me (and I'm gay). The first thought in my head would be, oh shit, he knows.
My best friend and I are jerk buddies, but we always talk about it first. We can't risk either of our parents finding out. :eek:
saul1026
August 26th, 2012, 09:43 PM
he probably wants to experiment
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