Do u like looking at shirtless guys...?

[branman2000]

I grew up around a lot of girls. When I was really young*they would randomly give me tips on how to be a quote "good guy." When things like guys looking a girls butts and cleavage came up in movies or whatever, they would always tell me how that is wrong, and that I should never do that. *Well now that I'm older, I feel SO different from other guys around me. *Most guys my age don't have a problem with talking about girls in sexual ways, even if they are just joking. *However me, I feel very uncomfortable talking about girls that way, because of how I was raised. *My dad is also very against things like porn and masturbation, so I don't have a guy that I can talk about this with.
I'm 17 now and still feel this way. I have watched porn and masturbated. however, I've noticed that I feel ok with looking a guys more than girls...? Idk if it's because of how I was raised...? I don't think *I'm gay because I don't like guys on an emotional level, just physical at times.
I'm just wondering if anyone else can relate. Are you ever attracted to guys physically? Or want to watch gay porn?*

[LuckyLuke]

Hey man, I was the exact. same. way.

I really didn't know what to do at first. I felt much more comfortable just looking a guy up and down than a girl. I always hung around females so I was placed in their mindset, "Oh, that's offensive to do that to girls", "that's gross", etc. So when I started going through puberty and all that jazz, I felt the same way.

But I find that as I begin to hang out with more guys, those feelings start to subside. It's really weird, like a "wolf pack mentality". The more I chill with guys, the more comfortable and natural I feel just checking girls out. And you know what? There's nothing wrong with that. We're guys, we're kind of meant to. The girls aren't ever offended either (at least in my experience).

It's kind of ridiculous. Girls say they don't like being checked out, but in actuality they do. I've had so many more girls approach me in a flirty context after I started being more free with my sexuality and it's awesome.

This is also one of the reasons I'm joining a frat in college next year. I need to be around more guys so that I can get over this mindset that my female friends put me in, the same mindset that made it difficult to get a girlfriend.

I think you need to do the same thing dude, start hanging out with more guys and it should settle itself.

[RayRay]

Dude im the exact same way! I think i just as if im disrespecting women so i watch gay porn. I could watch straight porn but i feel guilty abd i also feel unconfortable with talking to friends like that

[AHSboy]

I'm the exact same way. It's just your personality. I wasn't raised the same way as you, but I just saw the reactions of the girls the other guys were staring at or talking about and found it to be hurtful. I still glance and feel attracted, but I'm not as open about it. I think some guys are attractive too, but I could never be in a relationship with any.

[Rodeo]

I think it is because of how you were raised with respect for women I also was raised to respect women and not look at pron so although I have watch all kinds of porn gay was the easiest I am sexually attracted to women not men so I am straight this is why I choose not to watch porn much but I love to masturbate.

[xaydavis]

I grew up around a lot of girls. When I was really young*they would randomly give me tips on how to be a quote "good guy." When things like guys looking a girls butts and cleavage came up in movies or whatever, they would always tell me how that is wrong, and that I should never do that. *Well now that I'm older, I feel SO different from other guys around me. *Most guys my age don't have a problem with talking about girls in sexual ways, even if they are just joking. *However me, I feel very uncomfortable talking about girls that way, because of how I was raised. *My dad is also very against things like porn and masturbation, so I don't have a guy that I can talk about this with.
I'm 17 now and still feel this way. I have watched porn and masturbated. however, I've noticed that I feel ok with looking a guys more than girls...? Idk if it's because of how I was raised...? I don't think *I'm gay because I don't like guys on an emotional level, just physical at times.
I'm just wondering if anyone else can relate. Are you ever attracted to guys physically? Or want to watch gay porn?*
Ive felt the same way too

[branman2000]

This just helped me sooooo much! LuckyLuke, your answer was PERFECT! But thanks to everyone anyway

[Anima]

I was literally raised the exact same way and maybe thats why i have sexuality doubts. Because i like girls emotionally , just not always physically. and i sometimes find guys interesting physically but never mentally. We are in the exact same boat.

[coolman12]

have sex then u will feel difrent

[predatorsfan21]

I'm the exact same way. It weird actually, how similar it is. That is spot on, bro. lol :)

[that94guy]

OMG. I am in exactly as what you guys have described. Even the porn thing. I first tried straight porn first but felt grossed at the woman body, so I turned to gay porn instead. Been watched it for a long time.

I've never got along well with other guys. It's like I do not fit in. When they all talked about girls and stuff I thought it's a bad thing. Plus I've never have the same interests in sports or video games,... as a result I didn't enjoy being around them. I find myself mostly alone all the time, study or surf the Internet...

Now I've quitted porn, also my perception on women have changed too. But I have developed the strong attraction (only physically) towards guys already. I can feel the total lack of the attraction towards members of the opposite sex.

Now I think I'm going to hang out, doing stuff with them more. I'm almost 18 now. Don't know if it'll change anything...

If only someone told me to do this earlier... :(

[curiousme]

Im straight/bi curious i like to watch gay porn and i am attracted to guys but no one knows so i just keep it on the down low ive been raised the same as you so i know exacly how u feel

[Sph2015]

I've always felt the same way.