FAT

[Wintergirl_80.0]

my scale might as well just say "Your really fucking FAT!!" cuz thats how i feel i want to cry soooo bad

[Ambrosia]

Well then tell that scale to fuck off because it's just a big bully with numbers on it's face.

It's how you see you. Not a dumb scale.

[Mortal Coil]

If seeing the scale hurts you so bad, then resist the temptation to step on it. You won't recover until you've learned to stop caring so much. Maybe you don't want to recover, as has been implied by various things you've posted here and on other forum sites, but VT is about recovery, so I stand by what I said.
You aren't fat, you are beautiful. Stay lovely.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i dont know what i want

[Caver]

Get a BMI calculator and test it out, if you think/want to loose weight, get a doctor/adult to help you with this as doing it yourself you don't always know what's best and whats not.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

yeah

[momo....]

there is a two option no offense

if u can changed urself or just have a patience to those bullying guys >.<

i know it hurts but telling ur teacher or parents isnt gonna changed that

[Wintergirl_80.0]

its not people telling me im fat its me and the voice thats in my head

[momo....]

OH I FEEL THE SAME WAY TOO

I JUST turned 47KILO

ANd i just want to not eat again >.<

[Wintergirl_80.0]

me to im 135 Ib

[Dwl4]

just love yourself for who you are. i know its been said a lot but if you dont like yourself, then change it. only you can be who you are and nobody can tell you otherwise

[Terrell613091]

u might have some fat on your stomach but if you have FAT ALL OVER AS IN FACE LEGS ARMS u can call yourself chubby be happy who you are

[LatinaVivit]

So you're overweight? Who cares? If you're fat, work it! I really doubt that being overweight is the biggest of your problems, so just focus on the positives and tell your haters to shove it up their asses!

[Amaryllis]

It must be difficult, hating your weight so much. Honestly though, whatever weight or size you are, you will probably still find an aspect of you to hate. There's no miracle cure for hating yourself or disliking what you see.

But you know what, sweetheart, your grave won't have "Lost 30 pounds in high school" carved into it. Or "hottest chick alive." It'll say something like "A loving friend" or "An inspirational role model" and that's what you should want for yourself.

Even the "beautiful" and "thin" people can be unhappy. And even they have a hard time finding people who love them. Including themselves.

Your scale isn't a measure of your worth so bit by bit, avoid it. Self-torture gets you to nowhere but hell and if you're going to be stuck with yourself forever, you might as well make the best of it.

Love,
Amaryllis

[Wintergirl_80.0]

thats really sweet love. thank you.

[Dake]

cardio my friend how do you think i manage to get 0.9 % fatness huh ?? cardio,fitness and hard work

[Wintergirl_80.0]

im 140 Ib

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i just dont eat any more other than like one meal a day im not hungary any more