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AnthonyS
June 19th, 2012, 11:34 PM
So I am gay. I texted this guy from my school with my itouch and told him I was this hot girl at our school. Then I asked him personal questions like his dick size and more. Then today I told the girl that I was pretending to be what I did and she got really mad. And then I told the guy it was really me testing him just a few minutes ago and he replied with "Da f*ck?!?!. What the fuck did you do that for bro." I don't know what to do. I can't tell if he's mad or not. I was thinking of replying with idk or something among those lines. Can you please tell me what to text him back and tell me what would you donif you were him right now.

Rodeo
June 19th, 2012, 11:41 PM
Id be pissed off what you did was wrong

rockymountainway
June 19th, 2012, 11:45 PM
Ouch. This is a tough one.

First off, you shouldn't have done what you did. Pretending to be someone else is wrong, and for the purposes you used it for, it's kind of sick. If you like the guy, just get to know him.

Second, it's going to be REALLY hard to fix this through a text. You're going to have to explain to him in person, and it's going to be awkward. He's probably pretty angry and/or confused.

Lastly, there's no simple fix for this. Whatever you choose, you will have to face up to what you did and apologize for it. You don't really have to explain that you like him, but there's probably not much of a chance for that after what happened.

So, yeah. Apologize in person and promise you'll never mess with him again. Apologize to the girl, too. Hope this helps.

P.S...I'm not really sure what this has to do with puberty.

AnthonyS
June 19th, 2012, 11:45 PM
Update: he is really pissed off. And so is she. They keep testing me and yelling at me so I took out my sim card and snapped it, and deactivated my facebolm and I deleted my skyp oovoo and im deleting my twitter as well.

rockymountainway
June 19th, 2012, 11:47 PM
Update: he is really pissed off. And so is she. They keep testing me and yelling at me so I took out my sim card and snapped it, and deactivated my facebolm and I deleted my skyp oovoo and im deleting my twitter as well.

Face up, dude! There's no way you can get out of this! If you hide behind the guise of having no contact, they could both tell their parents, and then you could really get in trouble.

hidden
June 20th, 2012, 01:21 AM
So now that everyone seems to be freaking out like their life is over lets take a step back and think about this. Yea, you messed up. So does everyone else. Obviously you can't go back in time and undo it so what you need to do is be straight forward with them. Apologize to them. They will still probably be pissed, and that's fine let them. However, completely removing yourself from society isn't going to fix anything. talk to them.

risener
June 20th, 2012, 01:41 AM
yeah its not that cool what you did. You can always use the southpark chewbacca defence where you confuse him by talking about chewbacca and say none of this makes sense so we should just ignore it.

collapsing_rain
June 20th, 2012, 01:43 AM
You have to apologise really sincerely to both of them in person.

ImCoolBeans
June 20th, 2012, 12:21 PM
P101 :arrow: Family and Friends

AnthonyS
June 20th, 2012, 01:59 PM
Update: Thank you all for the advice. I reactivated my Facebook and I got a message from him that said "I'm not mad bro, I just wanna sort things out, can I ask you a question?"

Montesquieu15
June 21st, 2012, 10:24 AM
..."are you gay?"

yah, I wouldn't have done what you did. but at least he's not mad. might as well ride it through. with the previous message, he seems to take it really maturely considering how awkward this all is.

honestly, if i were him, i'd try to have nothing to do with it.

Montesquieu15
June 22nd, 2012, 05:35 PM
What happened though??