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ryanlaba
July 25th, 2007, 08:32 PM
My Friend Is 11 And Hes Guilty That He Is Masturbating when he didnt even start puberty yet. he asked me if this was okay and i didnt know what to say so i need your answers if you can. :confused:

MoveAlong
July 25th, 2007, 08:58 PM
It's not bad at all! It's pleasurable and not hurting him, so no. Keep on doing it! :D

(This should be moved into the "Masturbation Discussion" sticky)

NintendoFanboy
July 25th, 2007, 09:00 PM
I'm 14, and until I realized it was normal, I felt the same way. Don't worry.

Maverick
July 25th, 2007, 10:52 PM
My Friend Is 11 And Hes Guilty That He Is Masturbating when he didnt even start puberty yet. he asked me if this was okay and i didnt know what to say so i need your answers if you can. :confused:
It's perfectly okay.

mr. self destruct
July 26th, 2007, 12:39 AM
When I first started, I was guilty also too, but there's no reason to feel guilty. Masturbation is totally normal, and there's nothing wrong with doing it.

JoshDude
July 26th, 2007, 01:38 AM
Yeah there is nothing wrong with it..

1234
July 26th, 2007, 03:08 AM
Yeah I started when I was 12-13 and I felt terrible. But when I found out it was normal, I felt incredible and relieved, so make your friend feel the same way.

sanjii1218
July 28th, 2007, 02:45 AM
wow before tonight i thought if someone caught my mastubating it was the end of the world. but now if they catch me ill be like
"its perfectly normal, now leave me alone!"
hahaha

Sapphire
July 28th, 2007, 02:38 PM
It is a natural and normal thing to do. As you have seen from some of the other replies many overcome this guilt-ridden concern about masturbating.
My advice is to make sure it isn't affecting him too badly for too long. If he doesn't grow out of this after realising that it is perfectly acceptable and natural then try speaking with him about it.

TeenGuy512
July 29th, 2007, 05:02 AM
wow before tonight i thought if someone caught my mastubating it was the end of the world. but now if they catch me ill be like
"its perfectly normal, now leave me alone!"
hahaha

Yeah - but it's still embarassing if somebody (especially a girl) sees you - so avoid it.

TheDude
July 29th, 2007, 03:47 PM
Yeah - but it's still embarassing if somebody (especially a girl) sees you - so avoid it.

Yeah its embarrasing if anyone does - masturbation is basically to satisfy your sexual needs the best you can without having sex