Girl Problems, Need serious help!!

[anton.b1]

Okay, so about this time last year i started liking this girl. For various reasons, mainly i was too scared (unlike me usually) i didnt tell her until December. Things had been really well recently and she says im one of her best friends ( friend zone -.- i think), and we were supposed to get together and hook up. Last week she got upset at me for some reason that i dont even know, and after several attempts at talking to her on the phone, FB, and at school she wont really talk to try and sort it out. I love this girl with all my heart, and i know i cant make her like me, but i still wanna be close friends with her. How can i fix this situation?

[missisabella]

I think you should put your heart on the line when you're trying to figure out what has upset her. It might make her feel that you genuinely do care, and make it obvious to her that you really want to fix whatever the problem is. :)

[BrassMonkey]

That sounds like my situation. I have a close friend who I want to go out with because of multiple reasons, but she has a boyfriend and there became a lot of drama between me and her boyfriend because of crap he said and done. I didnt want to screw up our relationship as friends and we kinda didnt talk as much as we used to, but now we are starting to talk more again. I would just address to her how you feel about her not talking to you, and then she might think you do care and stuff. Then she will probably start talking to you again.

[anton.b1]

thanks for your help :)
i sorta already tried that, but hasnt really worked, so I'm probably gonna wait for a week without talking to her, and maybe wait and see if she wants to try and fix things