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Toon'Cam
June 18th, 2012, 08:11 PM
I had started seeing another guy but he moved away for uni and I mean like hundreds of miles :( at first we thought we would try keep it long distance and visit each other using the train etc but after a bit we started getting more detached. We kept in touch only through skype at night or texting during the day due to us both having to work/study during alot of the day. After a bit he started talking about another guy at his uni who he liked and even though it killed me I let him go on because I could tell he was happier than he had been since the move. We were talking and I kinda decided to finish it saying because of long distance but really I think its because I know he will happier being with the other guy who he can physically be with rather than someone who is miles away and can only see rarely. Since this he has stopped talking to me and even though I was happy to finish it I would still love to keep intoucj with him and it's soo horrible having to just lie out. It feels like I have made the right choice even though it hurts so bad but sometimes I really regret it, what do yous think? And also do you have any advice about getting back to talking to him because ATM he replies shortly and with stuff its hard to reply to so conversations don't last long :(

SamB
June 19th, 2012, 09:19 AM
This may sound really cliche and cringe but we sometimes have to let go to those we love, it is hard and painful, but sometimes it has to be done.

If you think about it, it wasn't working as a long distance relationship just move on and find someone close to you and will make you happy. You know he is happy so it is now your turn to be happy as well :)

ackmedsgirl666
June 19th, 2012, 12:18 PM
it may be best for you to just let go. hes moved on so maybe its best you do the same. its hard to remain friends with exes

Tristin.
June 20th, 2012, 01:47 AM
I once had to let go of someone i loved due to distance and it is difficult, but in times like these you have to and you have to accept that they have moved on. It is difficult, but usually for the better as if you had kept the relationship going, it would have become strained and unpleasant.