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gavo123
June 18th, 2012, 01:57 PM
okay so my girlfriend told me she would give me a blow job, but one thing, i have to were a condom? shes crazy how can i convience her to suck me off without one?

sms22
June 18th, 2012, 01:59 PM
She probably doesnt want you to cum in her mouth. Just promise you wont

ackmedsgirl666
June 18th, 2012, 03:11 PM
she probably wants to be safe and doesnt want any mouth infections and shes probably afraid you may cum in her mouth.

Gigablue
June 18th, 2012, 04:35 PM
There is a small chance that you could pass on an STI if you happen to have one, and she may be trying to reduce that risk. It may also be that she doesn't want semen in her mouth, in which case you could tell her you won't cum in her mouth. If all else fails you could just wear a condom.

Mortal Coil
June 18th, 2012, 05:39 PM
It's her choice. You can't make her suck you off without one, that's non-consensual sexual contact, more commonly known as RAPE. Either go with it, or talk to her like a mature adult and try to come to an agreement.

cameronbrine
May 5th, 2013, 04:19 PM
just do it with a condom.......

Wanderer_
May 5th, 2013, 06:21 PM
It's still going to feel good, when she is comfortable she probably will want to without
Lick her pussy a lot and one day suggest seeing as you aren't lucking latex over it...

ginny.the.brave
May 5th, 2013, 06:38 PM
okay so my girlfriend told me she would give me a blow job, but one thing, i have to were a condom? shes crazy how can i convience her to suck me off without one?

Just go with it. She will eventually want to do it without a condom. Be glad that she wants to be careful.

Krash9
May 6th, 2013, 02:31 AM
lemmie give a little advice. NEVER PRESSURE a girl. It is better to do it for a few weeks with one and then when shes comfortable she will want to try it without one. also, if you dont blow it in her mouth shes more likely to let you do it without one.

dont try to convince her, give her time to get used to it.

Jamesison
May 6th, 2013, 10:34 AM
I guess she wants to be safe. I have never had one with one but i hear it does not feel that great. Try to see if she will do it with out it tell her you will tell her when you are going to cum. try to talk to her about it. See what she says.

HunterBlue
May 6th, 2013, 03:17 PM
A bj with a condom on is just frustrating. You won't feel much really. You'll probably do it because you can't resist the offer, but you'll hate it. Eventually you'll tell her to just forget it. The weird thing is telling her thanks but no thanks is just going to make her mad so in a way you're sort of forced to go with it even when you'd just rather not do it all.

Btw, way harsh to jump to the rape accusations!! Guy is just asking and warned about raping his girlfriend. And as I was saying lots of times guys have no desire to go along with some rules for sex. But if they say they would rather not have sex at all under those conditions they get called all kinds of names. So they're coerced into doing it. That's not cool either.

Dude. If you don't like it. And you say thanks buy no thanks that's not what I'm comfortable with then don't do it. Doing it just to make her happy is just as bad as when guys do it to girls.

HunterBlue
May 6th, 2013, 03:21 PM
It's still going to feel good, when she is comfortable she probably will want to without
Lick her pussy a lot and one day suggest seeing as you aren't lucking latex over it...

Good point!! Only lick her pussy with some latex over her clit!! After about five minutes of that ill bet she'll change her mind.

itsthat0n3kid
May 6th, 2013, 05:26 PM
she just really really wants to be safe but maybe that is a little over protective.

RAGE DJ
May 6th, 2013, 05:51 PM
Im sure you guys will venture onward and you get a BJ with out a condom. You can try to convince her or just let her do it until she lets you take it off.

TinyDancer
May 6th, 2013, 05:56 PM
okay so my girlfriend told me she would give me a blow job, but one thing, i have to were a condom? shes crazy how can i convience her to suck me off without one?

You can't. You'll just have to see where your relationship takes you. Maybe later.

justinglives
May 6th, 2013, 06:19 PM
Or u could take a POSITIVE approach and thank her for "doing something u know some girls wont do."
Make sure its ok to.cum while shes going down on u EVEN THOUGH u have a comdom on. When shes (and ure) done kiss her long, deep, and passionately to show her YOU are ok with the oral sex thing and you dont have issues with having things in your mouth she just had in hers.

BTW: girls......your thought.on my theory?

ForrestGump
May 8th, 2013, 05:03 PM
Bro just wear a condom.... not that hard.

AlexBarrett
May 8th, 2013, 05:57 PM
If she wants you to wear a condom for a blowjob, let me tell you, it sucks. Pun intended. I mean, A condom wasn't intended for blow jobs.

Wanderer_
May 8th, 2013, 07:30 PM
If she wants you to wear a condom for a blowjob, let me tell you, it sucks. Pun intended. I mean, A condom wasn't intended for blow jobs.

Then why do they make flavoured ones?

AlexBarrett
May 8th, 2013, 08:24 PM
Then why do they make flavoured ones?


You got me there.

Wanderer_
May 8th, 2013, 08:55 PM
I get it why guys are against it, I never sucked one with a rubber on, but if she is new to things and worried about std's etc then just do it - it's going to be better than no bj
When she's comfortable she'll want it natural for the pay off