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slut bunwullah
July 25th, 2007, 09:45 AM
It's 2 years to the day my brother hung himself..

Everyone around the house is either crying, or consuming great volumes of alcohol to feel better (a tradition of my race, I might add)
My mother is drunk beyond belief (and has a job to go to) my brothers and Sister are busy being upset, drunk or both and my oldest brother and his wife are coming to visit later.

I have a house full of pissed/crying people (I seem to be the only one who can greive to myself in silence, though I have had a drink) and my brother, wife and my nephews are coming round. What the HELL AM I GOING TO DO!
:mad:

Maverick
July 25th, 2007, 10:11 AM
Personally I would just let them be and just occupy yourself with something. They are obviously very upset and everyone expresses their grief differently. The least you can do is be there for them and support them through this tragic day.

Sapphire
July 25th, 2007, 11:15 AM
Personally I would just let them be and just occupy yourself with something. They are obviously very upset and everyone expresses their grief differently. The least you can do is be there for them and support them through this tragic day.

QFT.
Death is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just let them be and keep yourself occupied.

Bobby
July 25th, 2007, 11:55 AM
If it makes them feel better, let them cry, let them drink. Just don't let them do anything stupid (like start driving).

slut bunwullah
July 25th, 2007, 03:57 PM
If it makes them feel better, let them cry, let them drink. Just don't let them do anything stupid (like start driving).

Not bloody Likley! Drink driving here means Deportation.

IanMilo
May 17th, 2009, 09:20 PM
I would try to convince people drinking is not the solution but rather face the source belive me its hard but once you can face it its so much easier from there i almost lost my cousin but i found him and saved him in time...