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SLABBS
June 18th, 2012, 11:28 AM
I beileve ive been put in the friend-zone with this girl. We went out for about 6 months a year ago. after the break up we didn't talk for about 2 months. we started talking again and we've re-established our old friendship pretty strongly. she has a boyfriend currently, Ive been kinda 'getting around' as well. We have the typical friend-zone relationship, doesn't really bother me, don't really want a romantic relationship with this girl again. But every once in a while we break out of the friend-zone briefly. we'll end up saying romantic stuff to each other or sometimes even kiss or make out. (not really anything more than that.) but its just kinda weird. we treat each other like friends, but every once in a while its like we were dating again. its pretty spontaneous. doesn't really bother me. but i cant help but feel like im being a selfish asshole to her boyfriend. he doesn't know (yet) =P

so yeah, i was just wondering really, if anyone else had weird relationships like this or even if anyone has 'done anything' with a girl that has a boyfriend (or boy that has a girlfriend) or what are you opinions on relationships like this are. just curious.

unnamed94
June 18th, 2012, 10:51 PM
its obviously wrong and it may seem she isnt completely over you. i have made out with girls that had boyfriends although i didnt knew at that time (some 'fight' started between her boyfriend and me one time). i wouldnt do it knowing she has a boyfriend because its wrong, even if they were having some problems in their relationship, but in the end its you who has to make the choice. i would just keep being friends with her but nothing more.