I want to move on

[1234]

I've been in the same stage of puberty for it seems like a year to a year and a half now...I feel left out at home, at school, and anywhere public. I feel so inferior and so young compared to everyone else. I think I might be in stage 3. And the only thing that's changed about me in a very long time is my height. I'm always so down and depressed about it. I just feel like crap constantly, knowing that I'm not like everyone else. And I know nature has to take its time on me or whatever, but it's seriously just annoying the living heck outta me. Can anyone relate? If not, can anyone help?

[Trademarked]

if you want to go to the extreme you could go to a doctor and ask for hormones, though i do not recommend this because it could harm your body. if you could describe exactly where you are (you know, the usual: height, age, weight, penis size, body hair) that would help to get a better understanding of where you are.

[1234]

if you want to go to the extreme you could go to a doctor and ask for hormones, though i do not recommend this because it could harm your body. if you could describe exactly where you are (you know, the usual: height, age, weight, penis size, body hair) that would help to get a better understanding of where you are.

I'm 14, about 5"8, 180 lb. (lotta fat :P) hmmm, penis size erect: about 4 in. I'd say, and non-erect: about 2-2.5 in. For body hair, ok, I've always had a lotta hair on my upper lip (been like that for about 2 years or so), and not much on chin. Near my penis, I have a lot of pubic hairs, and they are dark and curly, not that much hair on legs or arms, and not too much hair under my arms.

[JoshDude]

Asking for drugs to boost your hormones is dangerous and can cause other side-effects. I suppose you should just wait it out and see how everything goes. You should be fine!

[1234]

Ok I hope you guys are right, cause I hate the physical state I'm in. Oh and also, I might wanna throw this out also, my voice cracks like 4-5 times a day. I know its not much, but it might help.

[Trademarked]

seems to me like you're in the fairly early stages of puberty. trust me, it gets better. you know, with questioning your sexuality, the raging hormones, more growing. oh isn't puberty LOADS of fun?

it'll get better mate, just wait it out.

[1234]

lmao, oh, I can't wait! :D But thanks guys, do yall have any time estimates or no? Cause if not, it's fine, but you know, I think I'm just overreacting to this whole thing...

[Trademarked]

average puberty finish time, about late teens to early twenties.

though i did see this one guy, who was SO CUTE but looked like a 17 year old but was really 12 :eek:

[1234]

Yeah, basically everyone at the school I go to matured at an early age. Almost every guy there had matured in 7th grade or early 8th grade...so that might also be another reason that I feel out of place.

[Trademarked]

what do you mean by matured?

[1234]

Like everyone had already had voice changes and were hairier than the other small percentage of us that hadn't quite gone as far into puberty yet.

[Trademarked]

oh, well, the small percentage of you that arent as mature as them have much more growing time and will be bigger, and scarier than them and you can just KICK THEIR ASSES! but not. haha, you're fine. if anyone makes fun of you for being a late developer just KICK THEIR ASSES! but dont.

[slut bunwullah]

if you want to go to the extreme you could go to a doctor and ask for hormones, though i do not recommend this because it could harm your body. if you could describe exactly where you are (you know, the usual: height, age, weight, penis size, body hair) that would help to get a better understanding of where you are.

You can't actually do that unless you have been Diagnosed with Late Puberty.

[1234]

oh, well, the small percentage of you that arent as mature as them have much more growing time and will be bigger, and scarier than them and you can just KICK THEIR ASSES! but not. haha, you're fine. if anyone makes fun of you for being a late developer just KICK THEIR ASSES! but dont.

rofl, well idk, it's not like anyone really cares that much, idk, I think I'm just being overly weird about this whole thing.

[Maverick]

rofl, well idk, it's not like anyone really cares that much, idk, I think I'm just being overly weird about this whole thing.
If no one cares why should you? You're developing fine. Just have some patience. Don't worry about it so much. Just let it happen and focus on other things.

[1234]

I know, I try to, it just stops me from having a good time, or enjoying my current lifestyle. It just annoys the crap outta me 24/7. And it just seems to be taking way too long.

[MoveAlong]

Yeah, basically everyone at the school I go to matured at an early age. Almost every guy there had matured in 7th grade or early 8th grade...so that might also be another reason that I feel out of place.
That's early to mature - you don't fully mature until at least 17! And you are DEFINATELY not behind for your age (I've read all the posts in this thread). You are just average and need to wait it out. A year isn't that long to wait for growth. My penis was the same size for a year.
You just need to wait it out because you are developing soo nicely. I'm 6 inches, about 113 pounds, about 5' 5" and I'm 14. We're different. I'm just a bit bigger on size and you're both heavier and taller. In fact, you're very close to the average height.

Just wait it out. It's not taking long at all and you've got about 6 years on puberty left. You could grow 1 inch in 2 of those years and get taller by 4 inches. It's not that long and you should have other, better things to focus on :P

[1234]

Ok thnx

[greger92]

dude 1234 i totally know wut ur going thru tho i must say i think i might have it worse lol im 15 and a half and probably around stage 2 lol it sucks ass and i know what ur going through it pisses me off!!!

[Greyson]

I'm 14, about 5"8, 180 lb. (lotta fat :P) hmmm, penis size erect: about 4 in. I'd say, and non-erect: about 2-2.5 in. For body hair, ok, I've always had a lotta hair on my upper lip (been like that for about 2 years or so), and not much on chin. Near my penis, I have a lot of pubic hairs, and they are dark and curly, not that much hair on legs or arms, and not too much hair under my arms.

Alright, well here I can help out. Do not worry at all. I am 14, 5 feet and 165 lb. My penis is about the same size as yours, might be slightly smaller. As body hair goes I only have a small amount near my penis. You are fine, just some of us don't develop as fast as others.

[1234]

Yeah that's for sure, it's annoying lol.