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commikid
June 17th, 2012, 06:27 PM
Okay so I have been thinking, the whole human race has been developed just like any other where people get attracted to other people and this is how nature has always intended but what is it that you acctually attracts you to them? just thaught I'd put it out there and see what people have to say :)

Random3r
June 19th, 2012, 01:26 PM
Flat stomach, love a girl with a flat stomach :)

missmk
June 19th, 2012, 01:41 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypothalamus#Sexual_dimorphism

for the scientific answer I'll leave this here. Thanks Wikii

OregonStateDude
June 19th, 2012, 01:55 PM
Well I could be silly and say "the penis", but it's much more than that for me.

I'm drawn to the whole package that a cute boy has to offer. His haircut, his strong arms, his boyish / masculine smell. But above all he has to have a good personality; nothing turns me off faster than a guy who acts like a douche-bag.

Snookers
June 19th, 2012, 01:56 PM
Every girl/boy is different and their preferences vary alot. Personally I like tall boys, with black/ dark brown/ blonde ( rarely) medium (or sometimes short) hair and green/blue eyes. Offcourse everyone is looking for mr/mrs right but nobody is perfect :)

Kieman
June 19th, 2012, 05:58 PM
Tall girls, I just like the look of long and thin legs usually... Unless there taller than me, then it's usually weird. Considering I'm 6'3.. Also, dat girly smell..LOL :P

Qunt
June 19th, 2012, 06:50 PM
Really feminine girls are the bomb, Like the girls that has manners. I love girls thats not afraid to drop their Louie Vuitton, and snatch a b1tch. Just that fast <3

Evancosta
June 19th, 2012, 09:36 PM
What attracts me to girls: Abs, voice, shaved, calves, eyeliner, breasts, lips, butt, style, hands, nails (some people have short stubby nails and it turns me off), long hair, and well kept.
What attracts me to guys: Short hair, butt, abs, shaved/trimmed, clean, nice smile, hands, eyes, lips, voice, short-average height, nails, calves, nice smile, and well kept.

commikid
June 20th, 2012, 02:15 PM
Well I never acctually said but I really like girls who are slim and pretty and do appreciate that there are good guys out there and dont just go for the popular lads or the ones that act all hard. I like girls that are quiet but you can have a good laugh with and she will have a loud funny side too :) ... its such a shame I've not found her yet :/

Kobra
June 23rd, 2012, 01:58 PM
A short girl, blonde or brown hair, glasses, physically active, hair past her shoulders, and fairly smart. I've actually met a girl that perfectly matches this description...

Toothpick
June 23rd, 2012, 07:55 PM
What Draws Me to Females: Figure, voice, medium-long hair, bitchy when need be, slightly sexually dominant, not a real-life Mary-Sue, not overly and unrealistically attractive, not totally conceited, good personality, brown, green, and gray eyes

What Draws Me to Males: Form, not ridiculously muscular, voice, short/medium dark hair, not a total douche, tall, sexually dominant, good personality, green, brown, and eyes

LatinaVivit
June 23rd, 2012, 08:40 PM
I guess what draws me to a guy is..... I don't really know. I just am.

LatinaVivit
June 23rd, 2012, 08:41 PM
Specifically, though: tall, bi/trilingual, brunette, blonde, red head, smart, romanic, etc etc. What any girl in a romance movie looks for I guess hahah

InfinantSilence
June 23rd, 2012, 09:14 PM
ermmm. What draws me to a guy. Medium to long black hair. Tall guys. There eyes, i love green eyes. Muscles, but not someone who is obsessed with working out. Just some one with little to no flab. Personality. Smell. And their voice. For some reason, lisps are so sexy.

Ricardo
June 23rd, 2012, 10:19 PM
Eyes,smile.

LiamC
June 24th, 2012, 11:14 AM
My 3 big crushes at school have one thing in common - amazing asses :P They're tall as well which is do with my macrophilia I guess.

But personality is a big thing too!

commikid
June 25th, 2012, 06:32 PM
Coloured hair is also a big attraction for me :D

Bicuriousboy
June 26th, 2012, 01:15 AM
abs hot abs are my bread and butter

SmileyFace13
June 26th, 2012, 01:26 AM
their smile,body,eyes and personality...also very rare but mixed ethnicity.

lcode
June 27th, 2012, 04:42 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypothalamus#Sexual_dimorphism

for the scientific answer I'll leave this here. Thanks Wikii

nice!

GreatestAffection
June 27th, 2012, 10:07 PM
Their Awesomeness!

mick4241
June 27th, 2012, 10:30 PM
I like not to big tits and a proper girl

beccaweiser
July 5th, 2012, 02:12 AM
I like not to big tits and a proper girl

"proper"?

commikid
July 5th, 2012, 09:01 AM
nice!

Woah thats wayy too technical for me to even understand haha :S

Sean4U
July 18th, 2012, 12:53 PM
Being gay I will definitely say a hot sexy boy that i see, dark hair, nice abs (a bubble butt wouldn't hurt either :D), not too muscular, but also in shape...not attracted to feminine acting boys for sure....its so much more than sex...they have to be easy to talk with someone who likes to have fun in other than physical ways...a guy that I have something in common with...likes and dislikes, but also is their own person and has interests that he can introduce me to that I may not have tried or enjoyed, but he can make them fun....also, friendship is more important that sex, so if something happens then it happens, but doesn't have to become physical for me to be attracted to him

Losing Sanity79
July 18th, 2012, 02:20 PM
For me, it would have to be muscular guys! xD Also, they need to have a good additude. Girls, just nice all around!

PinkFloyd
July 19th, 2012, 02:29 PM
lets see..... girls...
personality, kindness

looks: above average height, boobs, skinniness

behavior: willingness to well ya know, willingness to play videogames, sports etc.

availability: usually available

damn... i got lucke

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif

FreeFall
July 19th, 2012, 06:58 PM
What drew me in, guys that make me feel like I could fit in their pocket. At first I went for the taller boys, my current bf is only a little taller than me but he is built. I love feeling like I'm wrapped up in a sort of security force field when in his muscular arms.

workingatperfect
July 19th, 2012, 07:04 PM
Intelligence, really. I typically don't even notice someone until I hear them talk.
Once they've sparked my interest, I like tall guys. Dark hair. Idk, there's a certain kind of look I go for, but I don't know how to describe it. :/ Kind of edgy I guess... And I like guys who are kind of a douche, but not a complete douchebag/asshole.
Oh and, must be over 18, but 21-24 is my ideal age.

Ginganinja
July 19th, 2012, 09:22 PM
amazing personality and long legs with a great rack preferably c cup

ilovesoccer94
July 19th, 2012, 09:57 PM
Their personality and charisma.