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ackmedslayer556
June 17th, 2012, 01:44 PM
so i guess i can say im confused. my girlfriend made me come out to her and i guess i feel ok about it. thing is i dont know if i am bi any longer or straight. ive told my girlfriend i would fool around with a guy around her but im not sure if this is a good idea. i have a dark pAST BACK WHEN i was curious i fooled around with a few guys. well im not sure what kind of advice to ask here. im not expecting you guys to label or decide my sexuality for me but i guess i just need some advice on how to deal with it. like if i should continue or just forget about it and pretend. currently my girlfriend and my bestfriend are the only two people who know because i trust them..
thanxxxx

ackmedsgirl666
June 22nd, 2012, 10:49 PM
so i guess i can say im confused. my girlfriend made me come out to her and i guess i feel ok about it. thing is i dont know if i am bi any longer or straight. ive told my girlfriend i would fool around with a guy around her but im not sure if this is a good idea. i have a dark pAST BACK WHEN i was curious i fooled around with a few guys. well im not sure what kind of advice to ask here. im not expecting you guys to label or decide my sexuality for me but i guess i just need some advice on how to deal with it. like if i should continue or just forget about it and pretend. currently my girlfriend and my bestfriend are the only two people who know because i trust them..
thanxxxx

hey guys.. could somebody shed some light on this subject and give my wonderful boyfriend some advice. he is very confised and i have tried all i can but nothing i say seems to work....
thanks guys

Harley Quinn
June 24th, 2012, 08:32 AM
so i guess i can say im confused. my girlfriend made me come out to her and i guess i feel ok about it. thing is i dont know if i am bi any longer or straight. ive told my girlfriend i would fool around with a guy around her but im not sure if this is a good idea. i have a dark pAST BACK WHEN i was curious i fooled around with a few guys. well im not sure what kind of advice to ask here. im not expecting you guys to label or decide my sexuality for me but i guess i just need some advice on how to deal with it. like if i should continue or just forget about it and pretend. currently my girlfriend and my bestfriend are the only two people who know because i trust them..
thanxxxx

It's totally your choice as to whether you want to fool around with other guys with your girlfriend there, it doesn't make you gay, bi whatever. It's a sexual thing and if it makes you feel good go for it. If you think that it's something that'll change, then forget about it, if not, you tell people in your own time what you are. Only you know within yourself what you are and whatever it is, figure it out or it'll cause problems. Only tell people you trust, I mean you don't have to tell the whole world. It's okay to be confused, you'll realise in time what you are, don't rush it.