I know how stupid this sounds, but please help me!

[Blood&Rain]

Hi,
I know how stupid and pathetic this sounds, but it is really important to me.

I have "fallen" for an actor. This is kinda' embarrasing to talk about so i wont go into to much detail or anything, but yes i have fallen for an actor.

I know that this is usualy completly vain, and pointless, but im not sure in this case.


She is the same age as me.
She actualy uses the fan sites and forums and stuff.
I know the difference between fancying someone and lust. And this isnt lust.
The person isnt that famous, and doesnt want to become famous.
She is really downto earth, and friendly.


I know theres a lot ive missed out, I made up a list of about 30 things earlier. Please help!!! I know how stupid this sounds.

[Maverick]

I'm not sure I understand what exactly you need help with.

[Dante]

is she someone you know personally who acts? or someone that is i guess, semi-famous that you see from afar?

[Blood&Rain]

That would be the latter. A Semi-Famous person.

Edit: Yes this is gonna make me sound like a stalker, but I have managed to find out the persons home phone number, as unlikely as it sounds. Not from rumours on the net, but from clever use of the internet, wikipedia, and a phonebook. (No im not a stalker, i was bored, and though i would try just to prove to myself that its not going to happen.)

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Do you mind telling us who it is? I mean, I won't judge or make fun of you, but it might help. I dunno.... I've known guys who had this kinda situation before. But I had to tell them.... "NO!!! YOU ARE NOT GOING TO JESSICA ALBA'S HOUSE!!! YOU HAVE A SICKNESS!!!".... heh heh :D I'm guessin' she's alot les sought after than that... I dunno, maybe you should call her! Who knows what could develope! Good luck anyways.

[Serenity]

I think you should ask first if you can call her, idk I'd be kinda creeped out if someone I met on a forum just randomly called me up one day.

[Blood&Rain]

The person would be Evanna Lynch.

And EmotionalMeltdown09, im not sure you understand. This isnt someone i met on here or another forum. My fault, i guess, for not explaining my self properly. :)

[Serenity]

She is the same age as me.
She actualy uses the fan sites and forums and stuff.
I know the difference between fancying someone and lust. And this isnt lust.
The person isnt that famous, and doesnt want to become famous.
She is really down to earth, and friendly.


I took that to mean you actually like spoke to her on the forums, etc. Well yeah, initiate conversation first man. You can't expect a relationship, friendly or otherwise, to just blossom from you- a perfect stranger who got her number off of the internet, however unstalkerlike- randomly calling her one day. Try to get to know her first, before you start taking any drastic steps.

[Maverick]

Luna from Harry Potter and the Order of The Phoenix movie? I really don't think you have a chance.

[serial-thrilla]

Luna from Harry Potter and the Order of The Phoenix movie? I really don't think you have a chance. that sounds overly pessimistic. just because she is famous, normal people cant become friends or more with her? im in no way saying that you will ever become close with her but social status should never get in the way of love or what could be love.

[Maverick]

that sounds overly pessimistic. just because she is famous, normal people cant become friends or more with her? im in no way saying that you will ever become close with her but social status should never get in the way of love or what could be love.No I didn't mean it seemed unlikely from her social status - I'm saying so because of the actual circumstances.

[serial-thrilla]

id agree that its unlikely but not because of who she is.

[Blood&Rain]

As painfull as it is to hear I know your right.
This is really strange, I liked her from seeing a small newsreport back in 2003! Thats WAY before they started casting for that film!

[questionz]

man, i dont think xenophilius would approve of that!

[Crazysam]

omg i kinda had a thing for her but i would go that far mate thats stalking!