Am I just an option?

[jhsjsams719]

So I'm a male (bisexual), and I've been liking this guy (who is also bisexual), and I still do. I told him that I do like him, but his response wasn't so hot nor so cold. He doesn't have much to a response to it, so I just straight-up asked him if he liked me or not honestly. Because if he said he doesn't, then I would just get over it and move on as quickly as possible.

But he says things like "I don't know," "Maybe," "I'm not really sure," which irritates me a lot, and it seemed like he was just messing with me. He does have some potential other; I think more than one.

Oh, and I'd also like to give a little background of us. We're best friends (with benefits). No sex though, just making out. We do care for each other, and it seemed like we had a natural relationship going on between us. (at least to me). During the first few weeks that we met. He was into me. But now several months later, he got over me, and now I'm into him, which is Cupid trolling with us now. He recently had a break up with a boyfriend, and I think that is still bothering him, and I understand that.

Am I just an option here?

[Harley Quinn]

I don't think you're a option, more a person who likes the same gender that is easy to talk to. I mean, when there isn't a lot of gay/bi people around, when you find another person just like you, you tend to feel close. If he genuinely doesn't know if he likes you, you can't really be annoyed, it's a complicated thing but if he's doing it just to annoy you then I'd be pissed too.

[disassociation2016]

You have a really good perception of your situation, and honestly you just need to look for signs that he's into you. I honestly have those crushes to that go away after time, where the other person might not be to crazy about me till I'm over them. Just be cautious. I don't want you to get to involved and end up hurt.

[Kuntaw kid]

It could be that he's unsure