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wolfguy
June 15th, 2012, 07:59 PM
ok i think i am bi and my dad is a pastor is it a sin to be bi

and should i keep it a secret

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Mortal Coil
June 15th, 2012, 08:22 PM
Well, different people believe different things about sexuality. you'll have to ask your father what his views are (but remember that people don't always practice what they preach.)
Personally, I don't think it's a sin. You should only keep it a secret if you think you will run into trouble because of your sexuality.

wolfguy
June 15th, 2012, 08:30 PM
ok thankyou so much

Harley Quinn
June 16th, 2012, 03:07 AM
It's a sin if you personally think it is, I don't think that it could ever be a sin. However, your father is religious which may cause it to be a little a bit harder to come out, and things like that. You can't change who you are so, how can something you don't choose be a sin? It can't really. Like Alex said, ask him his opinion of homosexuality and based on that do you decide to keep it secret.

wolfguy
June 16th, 2012, 03:11 AM
i will try that thanks

wolfguy
June 16th, 2012, 07:01 AM
relly 61 views but only 2 replays not counting me WTF

CrossingtheCourtyard
June 16th, 2012, 07:19 AM
relly 61 views but only 2 replays not counting me WTF

Them's the breaks I'm afraid. People will reply when you give them time.

Regardless--

Homosexuality is viewed as sinful by some religious orders, other denominations don't have a problem with it. On whole, outside of what some religions would have people believe, there is nothing wrong with homosexuality.

Beaker
June 16th, 2012, 02:52 PM
Honestly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi. If you believe the bible it says that people who are gay are unnatural and sinful, but this was written in the days when people were put to death for stealing fruit, it is just wrong. You have not harmed yourself nor anyone else, therefore it is not a sin. As for your dad, ask his opinion on homosexuality. A lot of religious people don't have a problem with homosexuality. Hope this helped :D

OregonStateDude
June 16th, 2012, 04:01 PM
You don't have to tell him if you don't want to. And it's probably easier to hide being bi than it is being gay.

Lots of things are sins but Jesus still loves everyone. And I don't think being bi is as sinful as something like an axe murderer.

wolfguy
June 16th, 2012, 09:31 PM
you all helped me thanks

wolfguy
June 16th, 2012, 09:33 PM
i am going to hde this it is probly just a phase

wild1
June 16th, 2012, 09:35 PM
I don't think you dad would say anything good if you told him so I don't think you should tell.

wolfguy
June 16th, 2012, 09:44 PM
i wont agin it is probly just a phase

Kuntaw kid
June 16th, 2012, 09:45 PM
Ho.early if being bi was a sin than how can people cheat and steal and not get anything to them no embrassment nothing but we do