my boyfriend

[funyun4282]

well, my boyfriend and I have a great relationship. But he gets so hung up on the size of his penis. I try to tell him its not a big deal to me and that size isnt everything. he is around 4.5 inches erect. Is there any way to get him to understand that its not a big deal? He is letting it get to him to the point of him overthinking and being unable to perform. Any girls have experience in this area?

[Mollypop]

I don't have a lot of experience there, but I know lots of guys are hung up on their size. The thing is, he can't tell if you really mean that it doesn't matter or you're just trying to be nice to him because he's your bf.

But I don't know what to do about it.

[funyun4282]

well, its getting a bit frustrating and its also a little frustrating that its affecting his being able to perform. I am just not sure what to do.

[Mollypop]

You said somewhere else that he was too quick on the trigger. Is that the performing problem you're talking about?

[KaylynGirl24]

You could just Keep telling him, Its not a big deal, he might understand if u say it all the time?..

[funyun4282]

well, yes he is sometimes quick on the trigger. Sometimes not even lasting for a couple minutes but sometimes he has trouble getting an erection too.

[funyun4282]

maybe he cant be helped.

[KaylynGirl24]

Well as long as you really don't care about size and its okay with you, He will feel alittle more comfortable..?

[Mollypop]

It sounds like he's really nervous. If he's afraid of cumming too soon maybe that keeps him from staying hard. But if he's psyching himself out, I don't know what you can do.

[funyun4282]

I will try to keep telling him not to worry too much about things. Maybe that can help him to calm down and last a bit longer.

[toobigforlife]

Its just a normal thing for guys, its all about pride and ego, they think the bigger your dick is, the more girls like it, idk why but its a alpha male thing.

[ackmedsgirl666]

my boyfriend was self conscious about his penis size in the beginning of our relationship because my ex ws circumsized and 10 inches whereas hes not cut and hes 7. the beginning of our relationship was awkwrd FOR ME BECAUSE I DIDNT know if i could enjoy sex with him from the fact he wasnt cut. but anyways yeah your boyfriend shouldnt be self conscious because there are guys who are probably smaller than him.

[funyun4282]

I keep telling him that but it wont sink in. self confidence plays a part in sexual performance and right now he is not very self confident at all so his performance is lacking. We do other things to make up for it but im just frustrated I guess.