Coming out

[Green Arrow]

I know that I am 110% gay now and I want to come out to someone. I nearly did it a while back but I backed out. I don't really know how to come out to a friend. I'm worried what they're going to say because they're guys and I don't act "gay" around them. Help please! :(

[DarkHorse4eva]

say that u r in love with a guy(maybe ur best friend or just a friend)

[Sonic Boom]

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss

Just be like "guys there's something I've been wanting to tell you......" After the serious coming out part, say with a sarcastic expression "Now that that's out the way, I need you to help me choose some handbags, stiletto's and glittery make-up." :D Joke about it afterward to stabilize the situation!

(Don't make the initial coming-out part a joke though. They'll think you're joking of course.)

[ImCoolBeans]

I wrote this thread (clicky (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134627)) which shares some tips and things to keep in mind about coming out; and a bunch of people have shared their stories/experiences with doing so. You might find some good tips in there, whether it's from the personal accounts or from my original post.

Just keep in mind that you don't need to push yourself to do it if you aren't totally comfortable with it. It's all up to you.

[Jose1995]

You should tell some one u really trust! I mean I haven't came out yet but I really do wanna come out To my family! ;)

[Green Arrow]

I wrote this thread (clicky (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134627)) which shares some tips and things to keep in mind about coming out; and a bunch of people have shared their stories/experiences with doing so. You might find some good tips in there, whether it's from the personal accounts or from my original post.

Just keep in mind that you don't need to push yourself to do it if you aren't totally comfortable with it. It's all up to you.

Thanks Mike, the thread will defiantly come in use soon. :)

[KenBoy6]

Just wait for the right time

[Green Arrow]

but I really do wanna come out To my family! ;)

So do I but I think I'm going to tell a few friends before I tell my family.