logic3star
June 14th, 2012, 02:31 PM
I've got a friend of mine, we're quite close I'd say and we can talk about anything really. I can tell we're both a bit curious, him in particular. I can be quite self concious and shy but he can be a lot more open about things.
There are times when sometimes after we've been with each other for a while and we've talked about sex and stuff when I can tell he starts hinting me stuff, like talking sarcastically about his penis whilst sitting close to me, or trying to make it clear to me that he has an erection, the problem is that whenever this happens, I sort of freeze and I don't really know what to say or how to react, I want to share the feelings with him but I just seem to make it awkward, when he says something really...sensitive(if you know what I mean), I can only really react by laughing awkwardly and I can tell that this annoys him and it makes me seem like I'm not interested, I fear lol. Sometimes he get's embarrassed and it seems that he feels like I've rejected him or something when I really don't want to. I really need to stop this because it's so annoying, what should I do next time something sensitive occurs so I don't freeze up in shock. I know I've made this sound a bit weird or stupid but I'm guessing you can sort of make out what I mean.
EDIT: I'm 13 he's 14 just a few months older but I look older than him. :) lol I think he wants to open a more sexual discussion or something because he does a lot of things like pee next to me in the urinals and get boners when he sits next to me and he tells me and makes it seem humourous.
There are times when sometimes after we've been with each other for a while and we've talked about sex and stuff when I can tell he starts hinting me stuff, like talking sarcastically about his penis whilst sitting close to me, or trying to make it clear to me that he has an erection, the problem is that whenever this happens, I sort of freeze and I don't really know what to say or how to react, I want to share the feelings with him but I just seem to make it awkward, when he says something really...sensitive(if you know what I mean), I can only really react by laughing awkwardly and I can tell that this annoys him and it makes me seem like I'm not interested, I fear lol. Sometimes he get's embarrassed and it seems that he feels like I've rejected him or something when I really don't want to. I really need to stop this because it's so annoying, what should I do next time something sensitive occurs so I don't freeze up in shock. I know I've made this sound a bit weird or stupid but I'm guessing you can sort of make out what I mean.
EDIT: I'm 13 he's 14 just a few months older but I look older than him. :) lol I think he wants to open a more sexual discussion or something because he does a lot of things like pee next to me in the urinals and get boners when he sits next to me and he tells me and makes it seem humourous.