really confused?

[XxAssasiNxX]

so ive allways wanted a gf but i just didint really know what really a commitment it is. until this year when i started liking a girl and realised that i really wanted some real with this girl. when she prety much rejected me i realised that noewone is ready for dating. my age group
thinks we are but were most likely not. im not gonna get into detail. but back to the point. over the long weekend ive been talking to this girl in my class. just as freinds. and yesterday was fine and today after school i get messaged on fb from one of her freinds saying. "will you go out with her?" i was really confused and i didint know why she would ask? i dont like her but i need an awnser before tmoro so nothin gets akward. in my opinion gettin her freind to ask is just stupid in my opinion...and on facebook. cmon. anyways what do u guys think.?

[Harley Quinn]

If you don't like her, be straight forward and honest with her and say you don't. No one likes being taken for a fool, and I think she got her friend to ask because she's either shy, or didn't know what to say to you herself. I wouldn't say it's stupid, just not really the best way to ask someone out, however, it can be effective. If you don't want to make things awkward, let her know that too, that way she won't feel awkward if you don't.

[Desuetude]

You should make sure that her friend was definitely speaking for her and not just asking you without permission but like Siobhan said she could be shy or worried about the answer so didn't want to do it face to face. Things won't get awkward if you just act mature and calm about the situation, although it's not nice having to reject someone it would be even worse saying yes knowing that it's not what you right. Don't drag it out or she'll just become more embarrassed, tell her somewhere private where people won't listen it or even over facebook again, don't make a big scene out of it or she's most likely to get upset. All you have to say is something like "I'm sorry but I think we have a great friendship and I'd much rather stay friends, I don't want things to be awkward between us though, is that okay?" If she needs time and won't speak to you then give her time, she might be a little embarrassed about it but hopefully after a while she'll come around and act normal again, just show her that things won't be awkward and act as you did before, nothing has to change.

[Stryker125]

If you're not into her that way, just tell her. You could say you just wanna hang out and be friends for now, or whatever you want.

Don't go out with a girl because you don't wanna turn her down and hurt her feelings. Trust me, I've been there. It's not fun.