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Cognizant
June 13th, 2012, 05:16 AM
Any tips are welcome. There is this girl I'm considering asking out in the future, but as embarrasing as it is, I've never asked anyone out before. Do any of you have tips that you've used and found successful when asking a guy/girl out?
Thanks all, Pat loves you <3

Sonic Boom
June 13th, 2012, 05:43 AM
You need to express confidence by being cheeky or cocky. So you can try something like " hey, you seem nice enough to become a good friend. Keen to join me for a cup of tea and some decent conversation? Oh wait, let me check my schedule...how inconvenient, I can only slot you in this afternoon! *face-palm*

And if she has a friend with her trying to convince her to not hang out with you, then say "cool, you have your own social planner! Is she available thursdays?"

Aves
June 13th, 2012, 03:06 PM
Be yourself, talk, don't be afraid do ask to hang out, and don't be afraid to just ask her out. Girls like confidence. Act confident, they'll be more likely to say yes.

Harley Quinn
June 13th, 2012, 04:09 PM
Conversation starters are key, if you're talking about something you're both interested in, it'll be a lot easier. I'm assuming she knows you like her? If not, you need to tell her talk first, but not always - depends on if you think she'll say yea anyways. It's better if you're in private when you're asking someone out, so friends and things don't interfere/have an influence on her honest decision. I say ask in person rather than by any other means because I think that shows a level of respect, but also by text or whatever, you never know if it's her texting back etc. Don't beat around the bush, that shut annoys nearly everyone, but don't be too blunt/straight forward either. Be yourself, act calm, and good luck!

Cognizant
June 14th, 2012, 06:34 PM
Thanks guys. :)