new here, might need some help/advice

[jackokidoke]

Hey all,

Cool forum ya got here. An old friend of mine started txting and she started to get into the topic of sexuality, asking me questions about it in general, and then about me specifically. I got nervous and scared as I hadn't ever really talked openly about that stuff to anyone. I didn't answer a lot of her questions as I was more shocked than anything to even hear them. I'm a pretty shy guy.

She says a lot of people discuss it, and looks like she is right. I think i need to break outta my shell a bit...I told her maybe I can discuss it but right now because she is like someone I know i feel way more hesitant about it.

Guess bottom line is, I thought I'd try discussing these kinds of topics with you all and anybody who wants to talk to me about it, or ask me questions. Since you are all kinda random and such right now, might be easier.

Talking in open forums makes me a little hesitant too, but maybe i can get used to it..

Any advice or guidance or where to start on here is welcomed.

Thanks good people,

[jackokidoke]

ps. at the moment I'm feeling one on one discussions to be safer too...no idea why..just being honest about my feelings. don't know if that's possible on this forum......so i'll do my best in this populated place

[gone123]

If you have any questions go ahead and ask them here, most people here are pretty open including myself. You'l most likely get the answers you need. Also if you have questions you can add me on skype if you want.

[Syam]

I'd never spoken open about it either. Saw this forum; thought I'd join.

Ever want to chat, just pm me. :)

[brockfisher05]

Hey all,

Cool forum ya got here. An old friend of mine started txting and she started to get into the topic of sexuality, asking me questions about it in general, and then about me specifically. I got nervous and scared as I hadn't ever really talked openly about that stuff to anyone. I didn't answer a lot of her questions as I was more shocked than anything to even hear them. I'm a pretty shy guy.

She says a lot of people discuss it, and looks like she is right. I think i need to break outta my shell a bit...I told her maybe I can discuss it but right now because she is like someone I know i feel way more hesitant about it.

Guess bottom line is, I thought I'd try discussing these kinds of topics with you all and anybody who wants to talk to me about it, or ask me questions. Since you are all kinda random and such right now, might be easier.

Talking in open forums makes me a little hesitant too, but maybe i can get used to it..

Any advice or guidance or where to start on here is welcomed.

Thanks good people,


Some one you know can actually make it easier because you are not needing to make a good first impression or anything. I also find once you just let it out you feel so much better talking about it, its always those first couple words that are the hardest.

One of my favorite people to talk too about sexual things and relationships I am in or even things I am dealing with are my sister. She feels the same way and of course there are things we don't tell each other but still I feel comfortable around her.

[jackokidoke]

thanks guys...definitely cant chat about it with sister...although this whole thing is making me realize or feel like i might need a girl to discuss things with, at least initially...idunno..i think....a member of the same sex just doesn't seem right at the moment...i dunno..

[Tristar21]

you could talk with a girl. but usually that gets pretty embarrassing. thee are alot of dumb people on here. but there are alot of very educated open and ready and willing o help people too. its hard to talk about for the first time. but this is probably on eof the best places to ask. why dont u start with one question. the worst that could happen is u get a few rude comments. but i think itll be worth it. people love to help on this site. its what its for.