I guess this is abuse..

[therunaway]

Okay, well the background story is..in January, I had thoughts that I was Bi and told my parents, then thought about it, and I'm sure I'm straight & they know also. Well, tonight, I was talking to my mom and dad about getting a job or starting a little teen business with my snakes. My dad thought it would be nice to say "Nobody would hire you, because you're hair is long and blonde, might think you're gay." Now, keep in mind that he did promise he would never say I was gay again because he thought I was for the longest time. So, I went ape shit & was screaming and yelling at him telling him that he needed to grow the fuck up, and I stormed out the door of the house & went for a walk. I came back and he was upset, and was telling me he loved me even if I was a "trisexual" if there is even such, he then asked me if I loved him & told him "Honestly, no, not right now." & He said that if he died tonight, I would feel bad, I continued to say yeah, I would, I guess. & my mom said that if he said it again we would leave the house & we wouldn't be back. I'm just so fed up with his lies, he kept apologizing to me & I told him that "If he was truly sorry, he wouldn't keep saying it."

Sorry for my rant, I'm just really upset. :/

[Destructive Impulse]

I don't see how this is abuse. He even said he loves you and would support you regardless of sexual orientation. And you won't get hired cause your 13. No one will hire you for a steady reliable job given your age. Not trying to be mean but that's how things are.

[therunaway]

I know no one will hire me, I was talking about when I got a little older, and no he's really not sorry. If someone is sorry, they don't do the same thing again.

[Destructive Impulse]

I never said he was sorry just that he loves you

[therunaway]

I hear that a lot too.

[Destructive Impulse]

That he loves you?

[therunaway]

Yup, tries to fix things sooooo many times with it.

[Destructive Impulse]

At least you ain't in my position where your parents tell ya they hate you.

[therunaway]

I'm sorry that happens to you.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Buddy u dont have it rough enough to call it abuse. Abuse is if ur hit or spoken down to like what my dad does

[therunaway]

There is such thing called VERBAL ABUSE. & I know I don't have it as rough as so many others do.

[Breakeven]

:hug:

[Destructive Impulse]

I think he was just trying to make a joke. Plus he pretty much apologized and tried to make things right.

[Kuntaw kid]

Just be glad their someone there who loves you

[StoneColdNicky]

I think you ought to give this time. If it was a big deal for you to discuss your sexuality with your parents, remember that it is probably something they have to come to terms with too. Your dad says he loves you, but maybe he still needs time to deal with it.

[Lyra Heartstrings]

Jesus, people! You don't have to prove that you have a worse life. Just support the poor guy.
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I, honestly, haven't had much abuse. So I don't really know much about it, but..stay strong, okay? Everyone on VT will love you unconditionally, and none of us will EVER judge you. Ever need to talk, everyone is here. :)

[eggy101]

Do no that homosexuality was shunded upon back in the older days, it was 'Queer' and discusting to be gay.you say your not gay, so why so offended? But you guys have no right to say this is not abuse he feels uncomfortable and insecure, i feels he is not treated right, you guys may be abused worse, doesnt mean this isnt abuse