Friendzoning

[hotsauce12]

ok, so, im 19, and this one girl is 17. We live in different states, but the way our lives are going, its possible we could meet up and stuff in a year or so. She already has a bf for about a yearish now, but she has cheated on him with me before many times. a couple months ago she tried to leave him for me but from there everything kinda backslid and she ended up putting me in the dreaded friend zone. Her relationship with this guy is starting to fall apart again. She is kinda half trying to work with me a bit and get out of the friendzone, but her heart just isnt quite into it yet... and tips other than waiting?

[StoppingTime]

Don't go into it. She cheated on her boyfriend to "be with you." This shows her as someone I personally wouldn't trust.

[Stronger]

I agree with Stopping Time, she cheated on him, to be with you, whats gonna stop her from doing it again? and its a long distance relationship, so she could easily lie on the internet, I suggest to just remain friends.

[Aves]

Doesn't sound like a solid plan. She's cheated on her boyfriend. Just because it was you doesn't mean she won't do the same to you. My advice is to find somebody else. Plain and simple.

[hotsauce12]

that would be much easier if it wasn't for the fact that she is the first girl in 19 years to show any serious interest in me....

[StoppingTime]

that would be much easier if it wasn't for the fact that she is the first girl in 19 years to show any serious interest in me....

Trust me, she won't be last. Usually, it's better to wait until you find someone you truly like/love, then be with someone you don't, just to "be with someone." It is hard, but it is better in the end.

[hotsauce12]

everyone else is with me for a day then leaves because im not good enough. its been clost to 20 years and im still not good enough. Why am I not good enough for anyone?

[Aves]

everyone else is with me for a day then leaves because im not good enough. its been clost to 20 years and im still not good enough. Why am I not good enough for anyone?

It might have to do with your personality. Maybe you have some flaw you aren't aware of. However, it could also just be a factor of not being around the right people.

[BrassMonkey]

Don't go into it. She cheated on her boyfriend to "be with you." This shows her as someone I personally wouldn't trust.
I agree, if she cheated on him for you, then she can cheat on you for someone else. She wouldnt be someone you could trust.