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Michael44
June 11th, 2012, 05:38 AM
Hey all I am in need of help! The girl I love left me like 2 years ago and I now realise how much I loved her and still love her! She has another bf now but fuck I don't think I will ever love someone as I loved her! What should I do!? Try get her back or not bother and continue hurting?

xXl0sth0peXx
June 11th, 2012, 07:51 AM
Hey all I am in need of help! The girl I love left me like 2 years ago and I now realise how much I loved her and still love her! She has another bf now but fuck I don't think I will ever love someone as I loved her! What should I do!? Try get her back or not bother and continue hurting?

To be honest, I'm sorry to say there's nothing you can do. She's gone and with another guy and over you, and she won't break up with him to come back with you, most likely. It stinks, I know, but there really isn't anything you can do to get her back. Trying won't get you anywhere, and may even end up making you look stupid. I'm not saying 'not bother and continue hurting' but I'm saying don't bother and talk to someone about this, so that you do move on. Dwelling on it isn't gonna help you or make it better. Worse if anything.

Bluesman
June 11th, 2012, 10:08 PM
There's really not too much to do... She's happy right now. If you love her as much as you say you do then that is you number one priority; her happiness. And look at the bright side! Relationships at our age seldom last forever. If they break up then explain to her how you feel about her, if it's meant to be then it'll happen. Just don't try to break them up, that's just rude and disrespectful. Other than that, I know you dont wanna hear this, but maybe friendship is the only option.. At the least you could still show her you care about here, even if not in the way you really want.

ackmedsgirl666
June 11th, 2012, 10:15 PM
all i can say man is try and let go
shes with a guy and obviously happy
im not saying its gonna be easy
im still slowly getting over my ex of almost a year and we were very close. now we cant even see eachother anymore because theres a restraining order and hes on house arrest. cheer up man sooner or later you will find the perfect women and you can make new happier memories with her

Spreadingwings
June 11th, 2012, 10:38 PM
My advice is to let go then move on. If you can't, then look in your heart and see if that love can't be found in you or in someone else. Above all, telling her how you feel (maybe away from the the bf you know) will make you feel better, and will show her how much you care. Hope I have helped you.

Black.Veil.Brides
June 12th, 2012, 02:16 PM
im sorry, but i'd have to say let her go /: if yhu broke up 2 years ago, i dont believe he will say yes. if her and her new guy are happy, dont mess with it.
if yhu truly love her, wait. but i dont recommend that as a first choice.... find someone new. maybe just maybe, that girl could be the one [: