Bonding with Cousin

[BrassMonkey]

Ok, I dont really know what I was thinking. Im Not going to do what the post had said do to multiple reasons. I thought it would make things better, but I dont want to risk anything. Oh, and Sorry Mike for asking that. Like I said, heck if I know why I asked that, but Im Not going to do it anyways.

Do NOT ask how to get somebody to experiment/masturbate with you - Mike/ImCoolBeans

[kat0060]

probably just watch porn and see where it leads however be careful about doing it with relatives as it can make things awkward if it doesn't go well

[BrassMonkey]

probably just watch porn and see where it leads however be careful about doing it with relatives as it can make things awkward if it doesn't go well
Well, the thing is, I dont watch porn.

[Sabercat]

I would totally want to do that with my cousin, I just did it with my step bro about a month ago... Just a question... Since you don't beat off to porn what do you beat off to?

[BrassMonkey]

I would totally want to do that with my cousin, I just did it with my step bro about a month ago... Just a question... Since you don't beat off to porn what do you beat off to?
I use my imagination,lol

[Chase1998]

Watch porn and see where it leads

[Sabercat]

I like it, I like it... Haha
No pictures or any thing...
I don't know how I would do that with my cousin...
But yet again mine says he masturbates like once a week... Haha

[Tom Stone]

You can talk about girls or whatever to sort of get you both in the mood. See where it goes.

[Green Arrow]

Talk about girls and other stuff then eventually just talk about masturbation or just do what you did before by dares but it depends how old he is.

[BrassMonkey]

Talk about girls and other stuff then eventually just talk about masturbation or just do what you did before by dares but it depends how old he is.
He is 14 and Im 15.

[Sabercat]

I would just ask to compare and see where it goes...

[Mark97]

well i would think asking to compare shouldn't be that awkward since u guys have done it before and then after that just ask if he jacks off and try to lead the conversation in a direction that would make him want to. but be careful it could be awkward after

[wild1]

Since he isnt far away start doing more things together and he'll probably ask you after a while. :)

[BrassMonkey]

Since he isnt far away start doing more things together and he'll probably ask you after a while. :)
Yeah, he might,lol

[StoppingTime]

This most likely will lead to the downfall of your relationship, not the two of you bonding, and becoming closer. Your life is not all about experimenting and having sex. It's about actually being good friends with each other and enjoying each other's company.
Most likely, you will both feel guilty about it, even if you won't admit it to each other (or even yourself, for that matter).
Just don't do it. It isn't worth ruining a relationship over ten minutes of "pleasure."

[iwannago]

bonding? yeah sure.... lets be hinest your just horny, and u want to experiment... theres deffinately alotnof other ways of bonding....

[badboy96]

start watching porn then easy in to it

[BrassMonkey]

This most likely will lead to the downfall of your relationship, not the two of you bonding, and becoming closer. Your life is not all about experimenting and having sex. It's about actually being good friends with each other and enjoying each other's company.
Most likely, you will both feel guilty about it, even if you won't admit it to each other (or even yourself, for that matter).
Just don't do it. It isn't worth ruining a relationship over ten minutes of "pleasure."
I know, thats what I dont want to do. I dont want to screw up our relationship as cousins. Its just, we dont have much in common. We are both into totally different things. there might be one or two things that we might have in common, but after a while of doing that, it just gets old. Besides, one of the things that we have in common which is Video Gaming, he does ALL the time when I go to his place. I heard that J/O with someone is good bonding and makes whatever relationship your with stronger, but since we are family, it might get awkward and screw things up.

[zrt12907]

If you have compared before than I would say go for it. That kind of seems like he is comfortable with that stuff just don't pressure him. Only do it if he seems sure though.

[LuckyLuke]

Making your bond stronger is playing a round of mini-golf, not jacking off. Be honest with yourself, you want to do it for sexual excitement. I'm not judging you but don't beat around the bush (well, until he agrees *puns*), you know what you want.

I also feel that a sexual relationship with someone that you say you want to get close to, but also lives an hour away and you rarely see is just the loose definition of a booty call. You're not saying you want to hang out with him, get to know him better, etc., what you are saying is that you want to perform sexual activities with him.

I'm not saying it's wrong or right. If I were curious or gay like you must be, I may be interested too. A cousin is someone familiar, someone "safe" to play around with until you know what you truly are and it's not so strange that you're thinking about these things with him. That said, I wouldn't go for it. It's like playing with fire in the cold, you may stay warm but you may burn the forest. It may make the entire relationship awkward and uncomfortable and that's just not worth it, is it?

[BrassMonkey]

Yeah, I dont think I will do this. Its just too Risky and stuff. I dont want to risk screwing things up. Thanks for the Feedback everyone.

[Lego]

Good man. yeah j o together made it awkward for me and this one dude. It is just cuz you're horny i was the same way oppurtunity presented itself and you just wanna pounce. But in the end you feel terrible, unless you're gay but not saying thats a bad thing. But anyway there are other ways to bond and save sexual bonding for the ladies ;)

[WillGind]

I have jacked off with a friend before, it's really fun. As for the bonding part, I can't guarantee that. You may grow closer, or things could get really awkward for a while. I would take the risk because it is worth it. As for how you should approach it, I would recommend that you start talking about the subject. Test the waters a little so to speak, if he seems into it go for it. He will give you signs. Good luck and have fun! :)

[ImCoolBeans]

Lets keep this appropriate, guys. Don't ask for/give tips on how to experiment or get somebody to do it with you. If that happens again this thread is gone.

[WillGind]

I'm sorry if I broke the rules or contributed to rule breaking. I am new to this forum and not particularly familiar with what's okay and what isn't. I will have a second read up on the rules. Thanks!

[Tonebone88]

since he was into comparing in the past, ask him if you can do that again since you have both matured since the last time. Then take your dick and start jerking it and tell him that you're super hormy and need to jerk off and he's welcome to join. Things should work out from there.

[Luke91]

Start out with remember when and see where it goes from there. He might want to picked it up as much as you want to.

[Laquifa]

Talk about girls and other stuff then eventually just talk about masturbation or just do what you did before by dares but it depends how old he is.

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[Jordan25]

Just start j/o and let him intentionally walk in on you and ask him if he wants to join

[BoyTeen1997]

I would ask him but i would not pressure him into doing something he does not want to do.

[Ben_E]

I personally see it as fine if your both kewl about it. If your worried about how to bring it up, just talk about the times you've compared and see if he wants to do it again, and take it from there.

[Ben_E]

This most likely will lead to the downfall of your relationship, not the two of you bonding, and becoming closer. Your life is not all about experimenting and having sex. It's about actually being good friends with each other and enjoying each other's company.
Most likely, you will both feel guilty about it, even if you won't admit it to each other (or even yourself, for that matter).
Just don't do it. It isn't worth ruining a relationship over ten minutes of "pleasure."

Why can't people be good friends, enjoy there company, and enjoy masturbating together?? Why is that so hard to believe that it happens? Yes i will admit the first time i did it naked with my BBF we felt alittle awkward afterwards. But we talked bout it and laughed that we were both feeling the same way, but didn't wanna say anything incase the other didn't feel like that. We are still BFF's and have been most of our lives, masturbating together has made us even better friends i think.

[cmh861]

I think it would be fun to do it with your cuz

[stan1]

It's not worth it. Trust me, I speak from experience.

[jaxian rhyder]

Watch porn:yummy:

[dontfiguremeout]

Bumped by another person. :locked: