Asking...

[mrmooers]

On Wednesday me and two of my friends, Shannon and Abby, are going to the mall to hang out before Shannon goes to Germany for 2 weeks. I know for a fact and have known for a while that Abby likes me, but the thing is I love Abby as my sister. I like Shannon a lot and her house sister and friends have told me she likes me. When we go to the mall I wanted to ask Shannon out for when she gets back but I absolutely don't wanna hurt Abby and plus I need to be alone with Shannon when I ask her. I need help and fast! What do I do?:what::what::what:

[therunaway]

I would honestly just tell Abby you don't have feelings for her like that, don't lead her on, just tell her you see her more as a sister & go tell Shannon that you like her, or ask her out, whatever you planned on doing. Either way, Abby will most likely be hurt, but, no pain no gain brother.

[Aves]

First, you need to tell Abby how you feel for her before you hang out at the mall. It's only fair for her to know your true feelings for her before you jump into a relationship.

As for asking Shannon, I'd wait until after she gets back, unless you have a definite way of keeping in contact while she's away. Asking someone out right before they leave with no way to talk is always a bad idea.