Cherry Garcia
June 10th, 2012, 07:46 PM
Hello VT, new to posting here but I've frequented the site as a guest. I appologize in advance for the long post, I'm perpetually bored and very long winded please bear with me.
My current relationship situation is BEYOND single. After being dumped by my last girlfriend over 2 years ago I haven't so much as held a girls hand let alone kiss or cuddle. Now I'm a fairly good looking guy, about 6'1" 170 muscular, and I can attract a girls attention easy enough. I'm just about as flirtatious as a platipus. I've gotten better, but not quite good enough,
So a longgg time good female friend of mine has been talking and hanging out with me. ALOT. in the past 3 weeks, we've ran a 5K, rode our bikes to the beach and back, just hung out at her place and talked seen movies and texted more than I've texted anybody in the past year combined. The problem is, she has a boyfriend. Bigger problem, he is a friend of mine. And the BIGGEST problem, the girl seems to LOVE head games. I dont think it's intentional, she is the furthest thing from the bitchy type, its just I think she feels akward about the whole thing too.
********Sitting alone with her on her bed the other night she asked me "So do you like anybody". Me being the STUPID STUPID STUPID person that I am kinda just rambled on about nothing. She has made a number of other remarks hinting that she likes me. BUT she also brings up her boyfriend alot. Not in a bragging way, since we're both friends of his its not an ackward converstation topic, but certianly enough to know that they still care for each other.
I like her. I do. smart, funny, very pretty, we're into alot of the same things, hell we're even going to the same college next year. I think we'd work especially because her boyfriend now lives kinda far away, and I live right around the corner. HOW DO I UNSCREW MYSELF? She even told me "I've got to teach you how to flirt". Am I crazy, or does she definately like me? How do I go about bringing it up to flirt?
My current relationship situation is BEYOND single. After being dumped by my last girlfriend over 2 years ago I haven't so much as held a girls hand let alone kiss or cuddle. Now I'm a fairly good looking guy, about 6'1" 170 muscular, and I can attract a girls attention easy enough. I'm just about as flirtatious as a platipus. I've gotten better, but not quite good enough,
So a longgg time good female friend of mine has been talking and hanging out with me. ALOT. in the past 3 weeks, we've ran a 5K, rode our bikes to the beach and back, just hung out at her place and talked seen movies and texted more than I've texted anybody in the past year combined. The problem is, she has a boyfriend. Bigger problem, he is a friend of mine. And the BIGGEST problem, the girl seems to LOVE head games. I dont think it's intentional, she is the furthest thing from the bitchy type, its just I think she feels akward about the whole thing too.
********Sitting alone with her on her bed the other night she asked me "So do you like anybody". Me being the STUPID STUPID STUPID person that I am kinda just rambled on about nothing. She has made a number of other remarks hinting that she likes me. BUT she also brings up her boyfriend alot. Not in a bragging way, since we're both friends of his its not an ackward converstation topic, but certianly enough to know that they still care for each other.
I like her. I do. smart, funny, very pretty, we're into alot of the same things, hell we're even going to the same college next year. I think we'd work especially because her boyfriend now lives kinda far away, and I live right around the corner. HOW DO I UNSCREW MYSELF? She even told me "I've got to teach you how to flirt". Am I crazy, or does she definately like me? How do I go about bringing it up to flirt?