do you have orgasms

[kgadi_101]

so i masturbate alot...
while watching porn,
while feeling depressed
and everyday at night

but i have never once had an orgasms... i heard they feel good...
i've tried rubbing my clit
fingering myself (to try finding my g-spot)

but nothing ever works...
is it abnormal?:what:

[Tina_town_OC]

sometimes it takes longer then u think, sometimes they are quick, but for me in da beginning, u just gotta keep going till you feel it gettin stronger, u'll know it when u feel it. dont give up :D

[missmk]

i used to be like this when I was inexperienced. I took me a few years before I had what I thought at the time was an orgasm, but in retrospect if it was one, it was like the mildest of mild ones. Wasn't til a few years ago with someone who will remain nameless gave me my first real one and it blew my mind, that person did a few little tricks that worked really well on me, and I've kinda adopted those into my technique. doesn't take me much anymore to get off, and when it does, I can't bust those out and get off in a few seconds.

All you can really do is experiment, cause what might work for me, won't for you. Or vice versa. I say be open minded and step outside your comfort zone a little. Not to say go porno styles or anything, but you never know the last thing you'd think you like might be the thing that does it best for you.

Also, when you do it, do you do it alone, do you use toys or your hand. do you read stuff to turn you on, do you watch porn, or do you just use your imagination? You don't actually have to answer any of those, its more so just to give you an idea of other things that can peak your interest and get you more in the mood. cause as good as anything feels, most of the time if you're not in the mood its not gonna happen.

Just be safe and take little risks to broaden your horizins but don't go 0-60 sort to speak. Good luck :)

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

I suggest you try building up to it. Like, start but then stop when you feel really close to the edge, and then start again. Also, for me at least, I heed to be calm and relaxed for anything to happen, because if I'm thinking about other stuff, it doesn't work as well.

Everybody's different, and what I like may not necessarily work for you. Just experimenting with yourself, I suggest doing it on a day where you know you'll be home alone for more than three hours. Or you could just do it when you have some extra time, whatever you decide. :)

[Soccer Freak]

Just relax and keep trying. It took me forever, but I have an orgasm most of the time now. Just keep trying and clear your mind. Relax

[sunsetblur]

try to enjoy the process and don't care about the end

[BaronessJamison]

a long build up does make it more enjoyable... can be hard to find that much time alone