I need some advice... and fast.

[scott757]

My girlfriend who I've been with since Febuary, and I've gotten to the stage where I dont know weather to call it a day or to keep it struggling on.

So, our exams have been over for nearly a month now, and she has still not been texting me, or going out or anything. We have went out as a couple once in four weeks. That day was good. We were kissing and we were happy, it seemed good. Once whilst we had nice weather in a group (witch we barely talked). The one day for my birthday, again very scratchy, more like mates than anything. and Wednesday there. We did hold hands and stuff and had one wee peck on the lips.

As I mentioned, my birthday was last week. And she never even got me a card. The same happened on valentines day. On 14 Feb, I got her a card, two teddies and chocolate. And for her birthday I got her a nice necklace (witch I've seen her wear mabey once, since late Febuary).

She seems to be NEVER texting me back these days, even although the texts are being received (my phone tells me). Although people say that she isnt the best texter you would think she would atleast check her phone to see if her boyfriend had texted her, if she was interested.

I had asked her on Wednesday about going out on Friday. And she said that she probally would. Texted her Friday morning to make arangemets. No text. Texted her today to try and see if she wanted to go out... nothing. Tomorrow I will try again.

Thing is, we have our subject choices on Monday so can't go out then. Tuesday we could. Then she's away to her dad's for the weekend. Were back at school, we will have that weekend then she is away on holiday.

What I have to ask for adivce. Do you think she seems interested AND should I continue it... :( PLEASE I NEED HELP, NOW! I just want to try and decide yes or no and get it sorted.

[StoppingTime]

A key to any good relationship is communication. If you don't have that, you get yourself into a situation like this.
I'm sure you both have been busy, and according to this post, you seem very one-sided, as if you are doing absolutely everything for her, and she gives you nothing.
I would just go up and talk to her.
Do you (yourself, not her) want to continue this relationship? And if you do, then are you willing to be patient with her? Has she been going through a lot lately? Does she want to focus on school now? If you don't know these things about her, then I don't know how good of a relationship you two have been in.

[JayTea]

A key to any good relationship is communication. If you don't have that, you get yourself into a situation like this.
I'm sure you both have been busy, and according to this post, you seem very one-sided, as if you are doing absolutely everything for her, and she gives you nothing.
I would just go up and talk to her.
Do you (yourself, not her) want to continue this relationship? And if you do, then are you willing to be patient with her? Has she been going through a lot lately? Does she want to focus on school now? If you don't know these things about her, then I don't know how good of a relationship you two have been in.

This, and also consider, if you want to be in a relationship like this (her being busy with school and such). My girlfriend and I both take the tougher courses in school and are involved with other things too. There are some days when sadly, I am not able to get to her text or call and some days when she is unable to reply to my text or call. However, we have both communicated that circumstance and understand when that happens. If I were you, I would go talk to her and see how she feels, then evaluate if I should still be in the relationship with her.

[Gordo]

Try calling her. If she wanted to make time for you she would or would make the time to explain to you why she is the way she is. Either way, I'm not a fan of how you've been treated.

No drama or anything, just quietly move on is what I would. Now ya gotta figure out what you would do and if you think you'd be better off without her completely instead of partially.

[scott757]

Thanks for your advice guys. She isn't busy at school since we haven't been there since the 17th of May when our exams finished. So school isn't a reason.

I would love for her just to talk to me and atleast tell me why she isn't texting. Its been going on for ages now. When I tried asking her on Wednesday her reply was "oh.. er.. uh... I can't even remember what I did yesterday..." So it was like she was avoiding the subject. Unfortunately whenever I try to talk to her theres other people with us or she will avoid the subject -_-

Do you (yourself, not her) want to continue this relationship? And if you do, then are you willing to be patient with her? Has she been going through a lot lately?

I, personally am quite fed up. I've tried time and time again, since mid April and still nothing. To the extent that when I was told on Wednesday she was going I was a bit disappointed. I am willing to be paitent but I've given her so many chances that I've just gotten fed up now...