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Ben_E
June 9th, 2012, 02:04 PM
Ok here goes nothing folks. This has been doing my head in recently and i would love other peoples input, advice or words of wisdom about it. So here goes nothing, me and my best friend have been experimenting together since we were 13yo. Then when we were about 14 we found out our other two friends from school were doing the same things. So now the four of us start experimenting together, one thing leads to another and you go from all jacking off in the same room to jacking each other off and more. Now during the three years we've been doing this, we've all had or still have GF's and class ourselves as str8, we only do stuff between the four of us. It's not like we walk down the street and say wow that guys hot or anything like that, but a blonde in a miniskirt is a different story. What we do together is purely pleasure and friends helping each other out, like you do your friend and they return the favor and do you. There's no emotional or physical attraction between us, is just best mates making each other cum. So is this still classed as experimenting or what?? Anyone plz:what:

Destructor
June 9th, 2012, 02:12 PM
yes it is classified as experimenting. if there is no physical or emotional attraction, it is not gay.

Ben_E
June 9th, 2012, 02:49 PM
yes it is classified as experimenting. if there is no physical or emotional attraction, it is not gay.


Yea Destructor no physical or emotional attraction, just 4 best friends getting each other off.. So even after 3years of doing it you still say its experimenting??

Mortal Coil
June 10th, 2012, 04:31 AM
Really? I reckon that experimenting refers to trying out new things, and seeing the result- whether you like it or not, basically. Therefore, when you stop doing it to explore uncharted territory (so to speak) then it stops being experimentation.

Short Circuit
June 10th, 2012, 04:38 AM
I do not think it can be classed as experimenting after 3 years, I would just call it "Friends with benefits" as there is no emotional content.

funinthesun
June 10th, 2012, 01:26 PM
if you guys are all fine with it, it doesn't matter.